schaser Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 I've got friendly with a guy from my class and i went to his house the other day. He let me use his computer and i was surfing around for a while until I pressed the History tab. It seems he was spending a lot of time surfing around on shemale porn websites. Now, of course, his tastes are his tastes, and who the heck am I to judge? But after seeing this I was wondering how many men are physically attracted to pre-op male to female transsexuals? Does it mean they are gay or bisexual? I'm thinking I should just let this go and not bring it up the next time i see him. Even still, I'm kind of shocked since I never thought he would be into that kind of thing. Link to comment
KG Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 She male and tv's scare me! Don't get the mindset. But to each their own! Link to comment
schaser Posted October 4, 2008 Author Share Posted October 4, 2008 Why do they scare you? Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 Why do they scare you? It's disturbing to think that an attractive female could very well be a male.. ICK! And i'm not even a guy. Link to comment
KG Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 Why do they scare you? UMM, not knowing who'se got the package at the end of the night. Link to comment
Cardinal Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 I use porn frequently. I am a complete profressional skeptic until I have very good reason to believe a picture of a woman is in fact a woman. If there is any doubt, I don't even open up the thumbnail. I'll take any one of the other 12 billion pictures of real women out there before chancing it on what might be a shemale. Link to comment
BeStrongBeHappy Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 i definitely wouldn't mention you've been snooping his history... maybe one of his buddies was over goofing around, or he was just curious... he's entitled to his privacy, especially on his own computer and you're not even dating him... Link to comment
schaser Posted October 4, 2008 Author Share Posted October 4, 2008 i definitely wouldn't mention you've been snooping his history... maybe one of his buddies was over goofing around, or he was just curious... he's entitled to his privacy, especially on his own computer and you're not even dating him... Well I'm male also and not gay. As I said, I just think it's strange he'd be into this kind of thing. And I never knew that men found shemales attractive. oh well, live and learn! Link to comment
ATLstudent Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 I am bi-sexual i believe??? But dont really stick to labels, im just sexual. BUt for me i have a physical attraction to the female body, figure, bum, lol. BUt I also have found that parts of a female are actually very unattractive to me, and dont put me in a sexual mood, why this is...i dunno it just is, so anyway i have always assumed i was gay because of this, and only being aroused by gay fantasies, well it wasnt until i got older i found out was a transexual was, and am very attracted to them, they have many qualities of a female and part of a male, that i dont particulary love or cant live without but i dunno for some reason, she could have everything tucked away or hidden and if i know its a TV i am turned on, if i know its a true female not as much, now this is purely from a blood flow standpoint, walking down the street my head turns all day long when pretty girls walk buy, its just for some reason when it comes to sex i dont get turned on sexually by a true female. I have been with the transvestites and it may sound really weird and unappealing to u but they are very normal 'girls', just have somthing downstairs, usually small from what ive encountered, these girls have taken hormones for a years and from the shape of there body and u would never know the difference, its a mental thing for me, i honestly wish it wasn't this way for me, because they're not the majority of people u meet everyday so its alittle harder to date one, but all i know is there a part of me that is attracted emotionally and physically to femaninity and they have both features in some ways, but theres a part of me that is only turned on by a gay fantasty, so it just works some how. Please dont think of me as some sexual prevert or something, or someone who does crazy things, literally these have been my only two partners and recently, so im actaully a pretty innocent person, T-girls very cool people if u meet the right ones. Don't be too harsh, please! Link to comment
ATLstudent Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 Its just a fetish. Its like something thats reallly naughty that turns u on, simply because its naughty, just more extreme i guess. I dunno sometimes i think what you like in the bedroom is proportional what kind of a release you need, i need alittle extra stimulation or naughtyness, to get me going in bed, casual stuff doesnt really work, like casual as in who im with, not what im doing. Link to comment
Loki71 Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 i definitely wouldn't mention you've been snooping his history... maybe one of his buddies was over goofing around, or he was just curious... he's entitled to his privacy, especially on his own computer and you're not even dating him... That was what I was thinking too. Why would you go and see what he has been doing on his own computer? But to answer your question I find it gross and in now why would want to be with some one like that. Link to comment
schaser Posted October 4, 2008 Author Share Posted October 4, 2008 That was what I was thinking too. Why would you go and see what he has been doing on his own computer? But to answer your question I find it gross and in now why would want to be with some one like that. I was just curious. Besides, he knew that I could have checked it so surely he is partly to blame. And also, why do you think it's gross? Link to comment
Loki71 Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 I was just curious. Besides, he knew that I could have checked it so surely he is partly to blame. And also, why do you think it's gross? Sorry I don't get your reasoning on how he is to blame for trusting you but ok. I'm not gay so to me it's kinda like false advertising if I don't want something don't cover it up and tell me it's something else. Link to comment
Mythical_Suicide Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 I was just curious. Besides, he knew that I could have checked it so surely he is partly to blame. And also, why do you think it's gross? You should have respected his privacy and not looked! It wasn't his place to know you could have looked. He trusted you enough to let you use his computer, wasn't your place to go searching. I have used many peoples computers without snooping. He isn't to blame at all. Link to comment
purpleduckie Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 Yea, you shouldn't have snooped. but um, i cant believe i'm saying this online in a public forum.... but my friend and i had a talk about that back when we were like 16 and confused about our sexuality. we thought it was kind of hot (best of both world... haha so to speak)... maybe he's just confused or maybe he's just into that sort of thing. i'm not a freak haha. i swear! Link to comment
collegegal1 Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 ok, so she shouldnt have snooped, but after you find that out, i'm sure its very IMPORTANT information!!!!!! Because if you are into strictly heterosexual relationships, and he's having thoughts or fantasies, thats not in line with what you're looking for....well, if you decide to date (you said you guys are "friendly", not sure what all that can mean). One thing I have always wondered about transgender people is if the tell people right away that they are transgender....i have a hard time believing they do, and I think it would be totally dishonest to do something as little as accept a date if you have not told the person you are transgender. None of that, let them fall for you then drop the bomb! Link to comment
collegegal1 Posted October 4, 2008 Share Posted October 4, 2008 but schaser...i also noticed that you are coming to his defense by asking some posters why they think "shemales" are nasty, and why they think its "gross," so is it a big deal to you or not? Link to comment
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