PhilliesFan001 Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 Just a question aimed at women who get Brazilian waxes. You know how you need to let hair grow for a couple of weeks before you can really wax again? Do you abstain from sex during that time? I know it's stupid, but I am *ridiculously* self conscious about having hair there. I hate it, feel uncomfortable and won't even let my boyfriend touch me if I'm not completely waxed. But going without sexual contact for a few weeks while I wait for waxes is kind of brutal. Any tips? Link to comment
jimthzz Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 Geez, find a way to get over a little hair. Grown women have some. Always have and they'll always find men attracted to them. Your sense of pride in your body should not be decided on hair. Besides, a lot of guys actually prefer letting it just grow. Link to comment
PhilliesFan001 Posted October 1, 2008 Author Share Posted October 1, 2008 Geez, find a way to get over a little hair. Grown women have some. Always have and they'll always find men attracted to them. Your sense of pride in your body should not be decided on hair. Besides, a lot of guys actually prefer letting it just grow. I know - I just really feel uncomfortable with it, and I know my boyfriend definitely doesn't like it, which adds to the discomfort I already feel. It's like women who hate waxing because they feel weird being bare- just the other way around for me. Link to comment
collegegal1 Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 sorry i know this is your thread but i was talking about this with my BF just last night....how much is a Brazilian? Link to comment
collegegal1 Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 and whats the procedure? Link to comment
dont_know_what_2_say Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 I know - I just really feel uncomfortable with it, and I know my boyfriend definitely doesn't like it, which adds to the discomfort I already feel. It's like women who hate waxing because they feel weird being bare- just the other way around for me. its not that bad, because it just looks 'trimmed' when you're ready to get a wax again honestly, it's not like you have a wig down there during the growing period, and he would be very shallow and dumb if he didnt know that for you to get waxed some hair has to start growing back.. Link to comment
PhilliesFan001 Posted October 1, 2008 Author Share Posted October 1, 2008 sorry i know this is your thread but i was talking about this with my BF just last night....how much is a Brazilian? Do you mean how much do they take off, or how much it costs? For Brazilians I've had, they take all the hair off unless you want a little strip, and it costs me around $50. Link to comment
dont_know_what_2_say Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 sorry i know this is your thread but i was talking about this with my BF just last night....how much is a Brazilian? it depends where you are, and where you go where i go i pay $ 21 which is pretty cheap but there are other places that will charge you $40/60 somtimes i just buy the wax and do it myself, not the whole thing, but as much as i can.. (this is not advised for someone that has never waxed before) Link to comment
collegegal1 Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 yes i meant how much for the wax.....wow $50. I'm a cheap ass. I kind of understand what you mean because I shave (it sucks) and I am always a little embarrassed of the tiny little stubbles you can never quite get rid of.... Link to comment
melrich Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 Well what can you do in between? Unless you get waxed every 2 weeks (and I suspect that would cause problems not to mention be expensive) you are going to end up with a tiny bit of hair there. If that is too much for your b/f then I guess he has to give it up for 4 eeks every 6 weeks. Link to comment
collegegal1 Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 yeah i was thinking about buying the wax myself too but the part I hate about shaving is bending in all these crazy moves trying to get everything-and you can never get it. I guess all that money pays for the peace of mind! Link to comment
Cognitive_Canine Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 waxing too often without letting the hair grow out is a bad idea. Nothing more you can really do cept wait for the next time. Link to comment
collegegal1 Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 thats true...if a man had to choose between stubble and sex I suspect he will choose..... Link to comment
dont_know_what_2_say Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 stubble! hahaha but yeah honestly and its better when u wax because the hair grows back softer, its not as pointy and thick as when shaving Link to comment
civilservant Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 Frankly I find the whole idea of tearing our your folicles down there once every month a very stupid one... Link to comment
dont_know_what_2_say Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 Frankly I find the whole idea of tearing our your folicles down there once every month a very stupid one... it works for me as i can get lazy with having to shave every single day waxing its once a month and you're set but everyone has their preference Link to comment
D_Lish Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 Brave women....Id be too scared of the pain Which is a bit daft and especially when I gave birth, with absolutely no pain relief... Im thinking the waxing would be worse.....maybe?? Link to comment
amtjrtcet Posted October 1, 2008 Share Posted October 1, 2008 Just a question aimed at women who get Brazilian waxes. You know how you need to let hair grow for a couple of weeks before you can really wax again? Do you abstain from sex during that time? I know it's stupid, but I am *ridiculously* self conscious about having hair there. I hate it, feel uncomfortable and won't even let my boyfriend touch me if I'm not completely waxed. But going without sexual contact for a few weeks while I wait for waxes is kind of brutal. Any tips? When you wax, after a while even by 5 wks post wax theres hardly any hair...and its not like when you shave. the hair doesn't come back * * * * * ly when you wax. Link to comment
SimplySasha Posted October 2, 2008 Share Posted October 2, 2008 When you wax, the hairs have to start all over, so they are thinner and pointier at the tips. When you shave, they grow back already at their maximum girth and sheared off of the top making it look like its growing in thicker. Frankly I find the whole idea of tearing our your folicles down there once every month a very stupid one... I would wonder if you think women waxing their armpit hairs is stupid as well, or do you like to cuddle up to that? Waxing isn't about pulling them hairs out for grins and giggles. For a lot of women, its a cleanliness issue. Hair tends to trap smells and it's very unattractive when you get a whiff of it. Yes, the vagina is a self-cleaning organ, however the stuff that comes out doesn't need to get trapped in a giant ball of fur. For some other women, it can be a comfort issue. It may just feel better there. Think about how much a guy scratches their own junk. It's probably because some little hairs are causing him discomfort and he needs to readjust. Now think about if a woman were to reach down and give a good ol' scratch. Very sexy, no? To the OP, I would try to think about hair being there as less of an annoyance and perhaps something a little more fun. No doubt the hairs are nice and soft instead of the coarse matted curly mess it can turn into if you let it go wild. Just look at the whole thing as a little bit of peach fuzz. Nothing to worry about since it's not long and gnarly and its still easy to manage and keep clean at that length. You're a girl that gets brazilians rather regularly I assume, so your boyfriend probably doesn't have any negative issues with it. Girls that aren't afraid to keep their ladyparts manageable aren't a turn off to men. Link to comment
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