Beoslasher Posted September 24, 2008 Share Posted September 24, 2008 So I went to this movie with this girl, that I'm in love with. She's not ready for a relationship, and I'm not pressuring her to be in one anymore. We flirt and have a amazing friendship. She just won't open her heart. She's been hurt, and there's part of her life that she refuses to share with anyone. So it must be pretty bad. She used to vent and she opened up to me, and I couldnt handle the ideas that she liked other guys, whereas I'm right there in love with her hearing all this. I let it build up, and I blew up. So now were basically where we started. So anyways on the ride home from the movies tonight were talking, and shes always so confused as to why I'm still even friends with her, and I manage to say that I love her, and she says it too, however, she says that maybe we should maybe try to spend less time together, just wean ourselves apart. I personally thought that was silly at the time, because it's like trying to keep warm in winter with a sheet, not a blanket. It's like censoring feelings, and I think that is dishonest and stupid. I tell her the only way shes getting rid of me is if she wants me gone. Which she says she doesnt. Part of me just wished she did though, it'd make this so much easier So I get back here and I decide to write to you guys, since I trust and value your opinions. Is there any other way to get thru this or wait it out, or is our friendship/ way future relationship destined to fail? Link to comment
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