Bradster Posted September 23, 2008 Share Posted September 23, 2008 I have been going out with my girlfriend for 3 weeks now, in the first couple of weeks and before we saw each other like 3-4 times a week. She works full time 10 hours a day and I go college 3 days a week and work a Sunday, but am free Saturday during the day. I text her all the time and today she text me about how she felt and stuff about her work and explained how she is always tired, she wants to see me but wants time to her self and is trying to balance everything out. So now what? I am seeing her tomorrow and am going to speak to her in detail about it, but would you stay in a relationship if you only got to see your girlfriend maybe twice a week? At most 3? I want to see her all the time, she said if I was in her situation I would be the same way but I wouldnt, I would want to be with her even if I was tired, even if it meant just cuddling up and watching a film or TV or something. She is 18 and I am 17 so we are pretty young, we were in the same year at school, she got kept behind a year because she moved to England from South Africa. I fear her work is wearing her out and believe it will eventually affect our relationship. I dont know what to do! I like her a lot and will do everything possible to make it work but Im having doubts, I really want a break up to be a last resort. Link to comment
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.