ngx335 Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 here's the backstory me and my ex-girlfriend were high school sweethearts first loves first everything. dated up until recently about 4 years. During this relationship we were both extremely young both 17 when met 21 now. I was not mature enough to handle a relationship like that being so young, I know I have tons of things to work on but the love we both had for each other was very strong. Due to me always pushing her away constantly breaking up, until our relationship started to dwindle until it finally came to an end about 3 months ago. We both went NC for a while to find ourselves. Recently we have begun to reconcile but she was in the middle of a relationship with another guy. Note that I didn't know this during our rekindling period so that was not my motive to get her back. She was very close to leaving this guy to get back with me even telling him that she was gonna give me another shot. However she couldn't go on with it because she is such a sweet and good person she felt that it wasn't fair to the other guy who had put so much effort towards her. After she told me this she said she was scared I was gonna push her away and hurt her again that she needed some stability from me but that she loves me knows we are meant to be together.Understandably I backed off knowing it wasn't fair to my ex her her new flame. So now I am stuck here waiting for her to come back to me and trust me however In the process I am going to work on bettering myself for her so that if we ever do get back together I won't hurt her again. I already made the decision that I am going to wait for her because I really believe that in spite of all my insecurities and naiveness deep down me and her are meant for each other. So this isn't a thread really to ask for advice if or not to wait, but what do you guys think about my situation. is there anyhope she's coming back???? even if there isn't i think its good to better myself for the long run. well this is my first post hope to here from you guys soon. and don't be afraid to be critical lay it on me if you think i treated her bad because i know i did. Link to comment
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