PsychGirly Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 To start off with, it's been about a year since I got out of my last relationship. Since then, I've dated 2 men, but haven't been intimate with either. I'm a pretty reserved girl, & I don't give it up easily. However, lately I've been feeling the need for male company. A few days ago, I was at a local store, and this very handsome man approached me. He told me he finds me very attractive and he started to ask me a few (very respectful) questions. I didn't want to talk to him there, because there were a group of guys standing outside the local store watching us, so I felt a bit uncomfortable. He sensed this, and gave me his number and told me to give him a call if I'd like. Later that night, I texted him and apologized for cutting him off, and explained how I felt uncomfortable. He was very understanding about it. We talked for about 2 hours online, and he seems like a really nice guy. I don't know what his intentions are, but he seems like a nice guy. I would be ok with a "FWB" situation, but I don't know if I should... My question is: If things works out and we start "seeing each other", should I be open to the FWB idea? (FYI, I've never had a FWB before) Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 that is 100% your call. nobody here can answer that for you. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Why do you assume he or you only wants FWB situtation... why dont you talk to him.. let him ask you out and take you out... and either you guys will click.. and being intamite will come naturly... because he takes you and you guys have a good time and have sex.. doesnt mean that you guys are in a rel.. but its easier then just throwing yourself at him and telling him you want FWB.. going the second way is very similar.. but he will have more respect for you... Link to comment
PsychGirly Posted September 22, 2008 Author Share Posted September 22, 2008 Why do you assume he or you only wants FWB situtation... why dont you talk to him.. let him ask you out and take you out... and either you guys will click.. and being intamite will come naturly... because he takes you and you guys have a good time and have sex.. doesnt mean that you guys are in a rel.. but its easier then just throwing yourself at him and telling him you want FWB.. going the second way is very similar.. but he will have more respect for you... Thanks! I wasn't gonna throw it at him that I wanted a FWB. I have to go out with him first in order to decide whether I'd want to be in a relationship with this guy or not. If not, then I'd consider a possible FWB situation. Link to comment
bmwm3 Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Just have fun getting to know him... and if you decide he isnt rel metariel and you start a FWB anyway.. remember lot of women and men have gotten attached by FWB... you really have to know how to seprate the feelings between the two... i say this because you said you never had a FWB situtation... good luck Link to comment
PsychGirly Posted September 22, 2008 Author Share Posted September 22, 2008 Just have fun getting to know him... and if you decide he isnt rel metariel and you start a FWB anyway.. remember lot of women and men have gotten attached by FWB... you really have to know how to seprate the feelings between the two... i say this because you said you never had a FWB situtation... good luck I know...that's what I'm afraid of. Thanks again! Guess I'll just have to see where it goes.. Link to comment
D_Lish Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 I wouldn't settle for an FWB relationship...even if I was desperate for a man. I'd rather do without. I can't have sex with a man, who doesn't mean anything to me... That's just me of course. Link to comment
PsychGirly Posted September 22, 2008 Author Share Posted September 22, 2008 I wouldn't settle for an FWB relationship...even if I was desperate for a man. I'd rather do without. I can't have sex with a man, who doesn't mean anything to me... That's just me of course. I know what you mean. I feel the same way, but I figured maybe if there's mutual attraction and comfort, it might work out. Link to comment
ycmanvs Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Go out with him first and see where that leads. There is no reason to make these types of decisions so far in advance of the actual date. Link to comment
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D_Lish Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 I know what you mean. I feel the same way, but I figured maybe if there's mutual attraction and comfort, it might work out. Well all you can do, is to date him and see where it goes and hopefully and if you like him, it will lead to more than just an FWB relationship. Link to comment
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