TBE_1989 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Hey all, I was thinking of a little ''game'' we could have in here that could give everybody some encouragement to heal (inspired from an idea from another forum). Everybody posts ONE THING ONLY that you think is necessary to heal and get over a breakup. It can be anything, a state of mind, an emotion, a material thing, etc, etc. It can be as obvious, as random, or as personal as you wish. Hopefully after a few responses people who are having bad days can just glimpse through the thread and see all these things that can help them at a glance. I'll start : NC! (I said it could be obvious! Link to comment
Darkness_Falls Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Physical space from the person. Link to comment
bijoux27 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Bubble baths. Or anything to pamper yourself. Link to comment
ginger007 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Respecting yourself! Link to comment
Honey Pumpkin Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 You need your friends/family Link to comment
skittles75 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Any hobby/activity that you can do to pass the time that keeps your mind off of her/him. Link to comment
carla7369 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Exercise (long walks in the forest are my personal favorite). Link to comment
Jeen Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Don't blame yourself for everything. Link to comment
blue_dahlia Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 You are the prize. Understand your worth, and that your ex doesn't define you. Link to comment
Supa_gurl Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Chocolate! Lots and lots of Chocolate!! Link to comment
thatdoggirl Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Make a little list of some simple goals for yourself and focus on accomplishing them. Link to comment
Jordan5571 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Practise the skill of thinking of something great just when your ex pops in your mind. When my mind starts to think of her, I imidiatly try and picture my family laughing. It changes the mood imidiatly! Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 A creative outlet to get all the feelings out and make something out of it all. Link to comment
keefy1972 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Realize that, in the grand scheme of the universe, your situation is totally trivial! Link to comment
Joop86au Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Great friends to have laughs with Link to comment
shygirl1212 Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 sorry but is this one bad? a new love... Link to comment
just M.E. Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Acceptance .... of who you are, who your SO is and that you cannot change the past but you can make yourself a new future. Link to comment
Chrisanderson Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Realize that you have alot to offer and it is truly their loss Link to comment
saturnreturn Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Kleenex! Giving yourself time to cry... Link to comment
TBE_1989 Posted September 22, 2008 Author Share Posted September 22, 2008 Bubble baths. Or anything to pamper yourself. LOL, bubble baths, perhaps the best tip of all! Link to comment
jpearl Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Focusing on yourself and making yourself happy. Link to comment
Band_Nerd Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 put everything they gave you away in a box and put in your closet. Or, do what I did, just throw them away or burn them. Link to comment
Recommended Posts
Archived
This topic is now archived and is closed to further replies.