Carmine Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 So I think I've found a really special girl. Today we had our first date today and we connect on so many levels that's it's not even funny. First we got coffee and sat and talked for two hours. Then we walked to the park and sat on a bench and talked for another hour or so. Then we went back to her apartment and talked and watched TV for a while. The date had to be about 5-6 hours total, and I enjoyed every bit of it. While back at her apartment we were sitting on the couch next to each other, and I felt like I should make a move...but I wasn't sure to tell you the truth. I didn't want to rush things and make this girl think I only wanted her physically, because honestly, I didn't want to rush things myself. When I finally left though, we hugged and kissed each other very briefly. This girl is absolutely beautiful and so different from 99% of the girls I've met. I really hope something happens here. Like I said, I don't want to rush things, but we already had a brief kiss, so I know she feels similar to the way I do. Link to comment
itsallgrand Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Yayy!! Sounds great, Carmine. Link to comment
redrose85 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 That's so great Carmine. You're a sweet guy and a cutie. I really hope it all works out for you Link to comment
annie24 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 great!!!! you'll have to let us know how the next date goes. Link to comment
Clarity Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 Dude, I'm very happy for you. I'm like two dates ahead of you and don't worry, the "taking it slow" things physically just pays off big-time later Link to comment
bijoux27 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 That's good to hear! Link to comment
TBE_1989 Posted September 21, 2008 Share Posted September 21, 2008 that's fantastic, best of luck with it. You seem like a very mature and decent guy compared to most 19 year old guys I know Link to comment
Carmine Posted September 21, 2008 Author Share Posted September 21, 2008 Dude, I'm very happy for you. I'm like two dates ahead of you and don't worry, the "taking it slow" things physically just pays off big-time later I'm glad I took that route. I just hope she wants the same thing. This is a very organized and secure girl, so inviting me over to her apartment where it was just the two of us really showed that she trusted me. It could have been a way of saying, "We're in my apartment...alone...so let's get busy!" but I don't think I was ready to go for that. Plus, it's so hard trying to make that first move to escalate physical contact. I just spent 5 hours with this girl, and I didn't want to screw it up by going in for a kiss and getting rejected. The goodbye kiss was a much easier and safer way to start that contact. Next date, if I'm feeling it, I'll make a move to cuddle or something. If I'm not feeling it, then I will sooner or later. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 nice carmine. hope it works out. still early though man. Link to comment
Carmine Posted September 22, 2008 Author Share Posted September 22, 2008 nice carmine. hope it works out. still early though man. True true...but this girl is REALLY different, so much more mature than most college girls here. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 True true...but this girl is REALLY different, so much more mature than most college girls here. i know what you mean man. i've felt this way about new girls too. a lot turn out to prove otherwise. Link to comment
Carmine Posted September 22, 2008 Author Share Posted September 22, 2008 i know what you mean man. i've felt this way about new girls too. a lot turn out to prove otherwise. Yeah, that's happened to me a lot too where I think a girl is different from our first few encounters and then she turns out to be the same as them all. I know this sounds so naive and cliche, but I really believe this girl is not like that. We talked for hours about ourselves, and we seem like we're totally on the same page and on a different page than everyone around us. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 22, 2008 Share Posted September 22, 2008 Yeah, that's happened to me a lot too where I think a girl is different from our first few encounters and then she turns out to be the same as them all. I know this sounds so naive and cliche, but I really believe this girl is not like that. We talked for hours about ourselves, and we seem like we're totally on the same page and on a different page than everyone around us. i hope it works out. i'm just saying don't get too attached. Link to comment
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