So far, so good...right?

[Ftheworld]

I'm a very shy and don't usually approach girls but I've decided to approach this cute girl in one of my classes today. She gave me heavy eye contact the first day of class last week so I know she's not disgusted by me or anything. Today was our second day of class (we only meet once a week unfortunately) so I sat in what I thought would be next to her but someone else took her seat and she got to class a little late so she sat kind of infront of me. No biggie...during class, she mentioned she bought the previous edition of the text book instead of the one we're supposed to get so I thought asking her about it would be a good opener.

 

As soon as class is over, I go right up to her (this is a BIG milestone for me) and ask her how much was the text book and where did she get it. She got all shy and nervous and started stuttering lol she then laughed at herself and told me where she got it. She went on to tell me she bought all her books on this site and didn't spend much money doing it. We were making heavy eye contact during this small conversation and my heart was beating so damn fast lol. I asked her what her name was and she told me, I introduced myself and she said, "It's nice to meet you Frank." And that was that. : / I did OK, right? I don't want to get too hyped up because I always do every time a pretty girl shows the smallest amount of attention towards me which leads to sadness when it doesn't work out but I'm feeling pretty good hehe.

[i_win]

To be perfectly honest I think you did great. Sometimes a small conversation like this can boost your confidence even though you really didn't risk much with the words you chose. The nice part is that it has opened up dialogue between the two of you and next time it will be a little easier and more natural to ask her out. I'd definitely get some things in your mind that will open up a line of communication for next class.

[kuiks8]

excellent job!!! keep us posted. I think its great that you branched out and challenged yourself!

[Seraphim]

You did AWEOME!! I think she likes you.

[KiCkiT]

you definitely did good! w000000t!

[Bkoguy07]

haha nice... big pimpinnnnnnnn

[Dating Coach]

You did AWEOME!! I think she likes you.

 

Well it's a bit early to be assuming that... but yes, Frank did very good, especially considering that it was outside his normal comfort zone. I have Frank a 10 out of 10!!!!

 

Now Frank, make sure you sit by her again and strike up conversation. Try to keep it off of class stuff as much as possible and if you find an opening, flirt and tease her some. If things are going really well you should ask her for her number and/or if she'd like to meet at a time before class for some coffee or something. Do not wait too long to try this. If you are chatting with her regularly you should ask her this within 3 days.

[Outdoorcrazy]

Hey man good for you. It sound like this was a HUGE milestone for you and thats awesome! Dont let ANYONE take this away from you.

 

But you want to know the bad part of this? Now you know that girls too are just people, and that they are nothing to be scared of, so you have no more excuses.

 

This showed you that you a valuable person, and you deserve someone accordingly. Remember this every time you get nervous about meting a girl.

 

You did exactly what you needed to do. Now the next step is to make sure next time if you have the opportunity to talk to her you DO it. DONT pass it by. Doesnt mean you have to go chasing after her to talk to her; just go about your day the same as you did before, but if you get to talk to her do it. It doesnt have to be anything complex, a simple "hey (her name), hows it going?" and go from there. ask her about her weekend ect.

 

Good luck man, and remember to have fun with this EVERYONE loves the person who is always having fun.

[Ftheworld]

Well, today sucked. She got to class late again. There were two seats open - one in the back right next to me and another one in the front. Guess which one she took? I wanted to talk to her after class and thank her for giving me that website where I bought my books but she started talking with these two other girls so I didn't want to be rude so I just left. I'm feeling kind of bummed. She didn't even glance at my direction once! Ah well...I won't bother her anymore but thanks to everyone who wished me luck!

[ProtestTheHero]

Well, today sucked. She got to class late again. There were two seats open - one in the back right next to me and another one in the front. Guess which one she took? I wanted to talk to her after class and thank her for giving me that website where I bought my books but she started talking with these two other girls so I didn't want to be rude so I just left. I'm feeling kind of bummed. She didn't even glance at my direction once! Ah well...I won't bother her anymore but thanks to everyone who wished me luck!

 

Even if she does like you she doesn't wanna make it look like she's crazy desperate or obsessive. Biggest way you can judge how she feels is to keep striking up convos with her and see how receptive she is. She's gonna have friends and other people to talk to as well, so just because she chooses to do that doesn't necessarily mean she isn't interested in you. Keep going, bro.