Where do i go from here ...did i do the right thing?

[younique21]

Me and my ex were together for two yrs and have been broken up for 3 months. After a month he already was talkin to someone new (gf now). For the past two months he was basically stinging me along. I was still there fror him no matter what...still kind of felt like we were together however he was putting me second. I was letting him have his cake and eat it too. Monday i began NC , tues didnt hear from him, wed he called twice, and 3 times this morning ..AND NO I DID NOT ANSWER...Yes he had some epsom salt of mine, but i know he couldnt honestly have called 5 times for that. Anyways he decided to pop up at my job today...asking me what was wrong , and why i didnt return his calls, and did i see him calling. And when i replied that i was fine he said i was lying. He asked for a hug but all i would do is give him a hand shake. I dont like playing games but i am tired of being nice and getting strung along..Yes i want to be with him...but I Cant and wont be second..this was only hurtin me more overtime....what should i do next?

[DieTeufelKatze]

I'd say continue on as you are. It is the more difficult thing to do, but it's the right thing to do for yourself. You teach others how to treat you, and if you show him you're not willing to settle for being second in his life, he will value and respect you more.

 

Yes, you're doing the right thing.