limey1982 Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 Hi everyone. I posted here about a week ago asking for advice and I need some more now please! To cut a long story short my girlfriend of two months dumped me out the blue. I really liked her alot. She had just gotten out of a serious relationship just before we met. She told me she was forcing feelings for me to cover her pain etc (previous post has all the details) and that all she wanted was friendship. Anyway, I decided to go away for 6 six weeks (different country and phone number) to give her space and see how she felt after. But at around the 3 week mark I cracked and texted he to say hi. She replied instantly saying she was really happy to hear from me and that she missed me. I need some advice please! it was only 3 weeks ago that she dumped me via text and said she just wanted to be friends. Now she says she misses me? please advise!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dreams123 Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 hi, not much help here... but girls tell their friends (guys or girls) they "miss them"...doesn't nessecarily mean romantically missing someone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 hmmmm. it's tough cause you started contact. if she really missed you in a loving wanting to get back together way she would have contacted you. maybe see if she wants to grab a bite to eat. just keep your conversation general and see if she talks about 'us' instead of generals like her friends and school and what not. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
limey1982 Posted September 11, 2008 Author Share Posted September 11, 2008 Hi ghost69, She didnt have my number because I went to a different country and I had a different phone (Im still there). This is why I cantacted her because I new she wouldnt be able to contact me. I just wanted to see what her response would be. Hope this clears things up a little bit!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 Hi ghost69, She didnt have my number because I went to a different country and I had a different phone (Im still there). This is why I cantacted her because I new she wouldnt be able to contact me. I just wanted to see what her response would be. Hope this clears things up a little bit!!!!!!!!!!!!!! oh ok. well....could she have gotten your number from a mutual friend or somewhere else? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
limey1982 Posted September 11, 2008 Author Share Posted September 11, 2008 nope, absoutely no way. Because I purchased a new phone and also because nobody in m home county knows her! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 nope, absoutely no way. Because I purchased a new phone and also because nobody in m home county knows her! ok. but you dated her for only 2 months. i don't see why you wanted to contact her so bad. i guess you developed some really strong feelings somehow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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