zhenka Posted September 11, 2008 Share Posted September 11, 2008 So my ex and I spoke for about five hours the other day and he confused me so much. He says that he regrets that he left me and moved to Miami, he says that he still has feelings for me. That he wasn't able to move on and keeps living in the past. That he does not want to be somebody insignificant in my life... But he doesn't say that he wants me back. What should I do? What does this mean. If he really regrets then why doesn't he ask me to get back together? Please help me understand... Link to comment
redhearts Posted September 12, 2008 Share Posted September 12, 2008 He may not regret it. He may just be missing on having a gf, or regret that he can't find anyone in Miami. I mean there can be multiple reasons. How long where you together? Link to comment
SStevens Posted September 13, 2008 Share Posted September 13, 2008 So my ex and I spoke for about five hours the other day and he confused me so much. He says that he regrets that he left me and moved to Miami, he says that he still has feelings for me. That he wasn't able to move on and keeps living in the past. That he does not want to be somebody insignificant in my life... But he doesn't say that he wants me back. What should I do? What does this mean. If he really regrets then why doesn't he ask me to get back together? Please help me understand... UGH I'm sorry I probably shouldn't even be writing this because I am currently on a rant. WHAT is wrong with guys? I agree with you..its like "wow thank you for calling and confusing the hell out of me" WHY do they do that? I really wish I could help you understand but right now I am just being pulled in all different directions by someone and it is RIDICULOUS. Why can't they just say what they are really thinking and beat around the bush? If this guy misses you but doesn't want to get back together why can't he just simply say "listen I really miss you and breaking up is something I regret but I am not ready to get back into a relationship right now." It is straightforward and honest.... It KILLS me how some guys seem so logical with certain things and then when it comes to just being up front and honest their logic is SHOT. It is so frustrating and I have really just had about enough... sorry this does not really help. i'm sorry. And if anyone knows where I can find that one thread where it is about no contact please let me know. thanks. Link to comment
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