danadurdur Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Hey. Im sorry if this question is really stupid but its been bothering me. Im in college. I dont answer my cellphone unless I know whose calling. I figure if its important theyll leave a voicemail. Anyway, since coming back to school this year I have had this one number call me like 4 or 5 times before, all on separate occasions. I recognized it as being from near my hometown and didnt answer it but one time I even called it back to try to see who it was. (they didnt pick up) Yesterday I finally got a text from this number (during band practice). It simply said "Hi" and I FINALLY got to ask "who is this?" The answer was "Steve" There are two steves I know. My roommate's boyfriend and my neighbor Steve who I happen to be friends with. It was the 2nd guy. He isnt stalking me, I think I had his number before but I lost my cell phone not too long ago and lost a whole bunch of them. But I think its strange because we are friends but not really close friends who call each other. Hes never called me before. The majority of our friendship he has had a girlfriend and now he doesnt really, but he is still talking to a girl he met when he was halfway accross the country for an internship. I would say he called me all those times to borrow something or to invite me to something but I checked the last time he called, even though I didnt know it was him at the time, and it was late at night...and he doesnt usually drink. That night before he called I went with a group of people to see a comedian. I sat down next to him and we had good times as usual. The following night I saw him at a friends house. He doesnt usually drink like I said but he was a bit drunk that night (his first time actually) and the next day he was wondering when I was going to eat and later IMed me and said "hey sorry if I got carried away last night..." Not only that he texted me which I find weird. Im sorry, am I overreacting? I find this behavior strange. He has gotten touchy feely with me, he is very huggy and stuff but Ive seen him hug other girls too so I never assumed anything. And from my viewpoint, he hasnt given me any special attention compared to his other friends that are girls. I dont know, Im an extremely outgoing and kinda goody person. My goofiness alot of times is often mistaken for flirtaciousness and also it doesnt help when people are talking to me I look at them like the entire time they talk. I guess guys misread that too. Im worried he may like me. Link to comment
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