kissipher Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 im addicted porn sites and my desires of this as lead me to looking up local dogging area's and even been to one or two,im a nice guy and i feel ashamed in a way cos non of the ppl i hang around with would think its disgusting if they even knew i was going to such places im affraid i might get a addicted or even obsessed with this stuff what shall i do? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmie_g Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 How often do you look at porn and go to local dogging spots? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kissipher Posted September 10, 2008 Author Share Posted September 10, 2008 How often do you look at porn and go to local dogging spots? im always watching porn,but only been twice to these dogging spots,but i want to go again,i feel filthy even saying this Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
liquer Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 If it is an addiction and you can't control it then you need to get some help as it sounds like you're not happy with it taking over your life like this. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kissipher Posted September 10, 2008 Author Share Posted September 10, 2008 its like im detaching myself from real ppl and relationships and women and substituting it with filth........things that are all show,nothing actually real Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmie_g Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 its like im detaching myself from real ppl and relationships and women and substituting it with filth........things that are all show,nothing actually real When you visit these dogging spots do you just watch or have the tendency to try and join in? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mutley Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 What's "dogging?" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kissipher Posted September 10, 2008 Author Share Posted September 10, 2008 When you visit these dogging spots do you just watch or have the tendency to try and join in? i watched and touched myself =/ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmie_g Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Oh right, do you think you need to go and see some1 professionally? I used to have this problem too, but i was the person in the car. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmie_g Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 What's "dogging?" Dogging is a British euphemism for engaging in sexual acts in a semi-public place (typically a secluded car park or a cinema) or watching others doing so. Frequently, there are more than two participants; group sex and sometimes even gang bangs can occur. Observation is encouraged Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kissipher Posted September 10, 2008 Author Share Posted September 10, 2008 Oh right, do you think you need to go and see some1 professionally? I used to have this problem too, but i was the person in the car. do you still do this or did you get help ? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmie_g Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 I didnt seek help i just stopped doing it. Found other ways to satisfy my sexual desires. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mutley Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Dogging is a British euphemism for engaging in sexual acts in a semi-public place (typically a secluded car park or a cinema) or watching others doing so. Frequently, there are more than two participants; group sex and sometimes even gang bangs can occur. Observation is encouraged I thought it might be a british term. Thanks!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
emmie_g Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 It can also be having sex with dogs. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CallingAllAngels Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Are you single or married? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kissipher Posted September 10, 2008 Author Share Posted September 10, 2008 Are you single or married? im single,i did have a gf but i kinda dismissed her needs and went behind her back,we ended a couple of months ago Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CallingAllAngels Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 im single,i did have a gf but i kinda dismissed her needs and went behind her back,we ended a couple of months ago My husband was addicted to porn, and, went to visit places similar to this in the US. He also met woman in person for sex. We are now divorced. Please get help for yourself. His addiction ended our marriage and devastated me. He hid it from me. I knew nothing about it until he had already slept with so many strangers (woman) that even he lost count. ~Allie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 do what your sexual fantasies want. if you meet someone you want to be with, then get out of it. until then, have fun. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
girl68 Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 do what your sexual fantasies want. if you meet someone you want to be with, then get out of it. until then, have fun. He's not having fun. He's addicted, ashamed and feels disgusted. Seek help, if you can't stop yourself from doing it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 He's not having fun. He's addicted, ashamed and feels disgusted. Seek help, if you can't stop yourself from doing it. and addiction can be broken by reason and will to change. i don't listen to addicts as it being an excuse. the way the OP talks about the situation, it sounds more like he's enjoying it than disgusted with being 'addicted' to it. i think he's saying he's scared what others will think. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kissipher Posted September 10, 2008 Author Share Posted September 10, 2008 and addiction can be broken by reason and will to change. i don't listen to addicts as it being an excuse. the way the OP talks about the situation, it sounds more like he's enjoying it than disgusted with being 'addicted' to it. i think he's saying he's scared what others will think. yes i am ashamed of waht other ppl will think and what my friends would think,but i like doing it,but at the same time i think its not normal Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CallingAllAngels Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 yes i am ashamed of waht other ppl will think and what my friends would think,but i like doing it,but at the same time i think its not normal It's NOT normal, which is why you feel ashamed. Do your friends and family engage in such behavior? No...that's why you know it's not normal. I suggest you get help before you spiral out of control like my exhusband did. Allie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 yes i am ashamed of waht other ppl will think and what my friends would think,but i like doing it,but at the same time i think its not normal you think it's not normal cause you don't hear of many people doing it. but if you did, i bet you would think otherwise and be open about it. don't be ashamed. just like the lifestyle of guys that like dominatrix. their choice. i agree with allie though. if you ever want to hold a relationship, i'm not sure this behavior would fly. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CallingAllAngels Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 you think it's not normal cause you don't hear of many people doing it. but if you did, i bet you would think otherwise and be open about it. don't be ashamed. just like the lifestyle of guys that like dominatrix. their choice. i agree with allie though. if you ever want to hold a relationship, i'm not sure this behavior would fly. Mr Ghost and I will agree to disagree on this topic! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Mr Ghost and I will agree to disagree on this topic! you don't think it's okay to have some kind of fetish like this? not everybody is the same. but i said i agree with you that if he wants a relationship it's not healthy. and yes, this is very odd behavior and could get worse. anything can get worse though. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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