brokenheart1 Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Sigh, I know it's wrong but he paid so much attention to me. Watched every detail. I broke up with him because he was abusive, I even had to go counseling. He was always there. Sigh, but I know he was hurting me. Why does it hurt so much? Does anyone want to share their experience with me? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_win Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Because after dealing with the emotional pain for so long, you don't know what life is without it and you feel uncomfortable even though this is a much more healthy environment for you. This is why women keep going back to their emotionally abusive bf (men sometimes too). That's kind of the sickness of it all is that the emotional abuse is their form of manipulation and control and now you feel guilty that he no longer has it. He broke you down though and chipped away at your spirit and soul and are better off now. You can be released from that spell. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i_win Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 So now I get to be jealous of this girl getting the best version of him. Sorry to hijack the thread, but don't think for a moment that she is getting the best version of him. They are fresh and everything is new and wonderful, but people like him don't change that quickly and she will be taking the abuse that you once received. There is nothing in the world to be jealous of...if anything you should feel sorry for her because history will repeat itself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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