elan164 Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 Im not really looking to get back together with my ex at this point but possibly if she can show me why i should, i guess im just looking for some advice. So no contact for a month after she broke up with me and was balling her eyes out as she walked out of my place...no tears from me, i kind of saw it coming in the past few weeks so i was prepared. Last time i saw or talked to her. Saw her yesterday at the gym, just stuck to my routine like she wasnt there. She came up and said hi and we had a 5min convo, she asked for a hug, we hugged. Today message from her on facebook, something about a necklace she cant find and wondering if i may have found it. Weird if i were to have it, that would have to have been a month ago, so why not message me then??? I deleted the message. Should i have replied. I would if i didnt think it was just some message she was sending because she just saw me. Anyways i guess i just felt i needed to right this down. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blue_dahlia Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 I deleted the message. Should i have replied. I would if i didnt think it was just some message she was sending because she just saw me. Anyways i guess i just felt i needed to right this down. Good for you for deleting it. Frivolous emails - who needs them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
coldplay. Posted September 10, 2008 Share Posted September 10, 2008 First you must ask yourself, what are you looking for? You wouldnt have included that fact unless it were relevant, but its pretty clear she is trying to reach out to you. Does she know what your looking for? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elan164 Posted September 11, 2008 Author Share Posted September 11, 2008 Im confused in what im looking for. Im sure everyone that gets dumped is confused on what they want after. I doubt she knows what im looking for since i myself dont even know. She was all excited when we were talking, i was up beat as well, i wasnt pretending either i actually am. Still just wondering if me not replying is a jerk move, but then again why am i even worrying myself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elan164 Posted September 15, 2008 Author Share Posted September 15, 2008 Send a reply today, not really sure why i decided to. "Nope, would have found something like that by now" Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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