CDizzle Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 I was wondering how you manage the time you spend with your significant other and the amount of time you spend with your friends. I am no novice to dating, however I am a definite novice when it comes to finding that balance. I typically get extremely involved with my boyfriend and start to neglect my friends. I go from spending about 4-5 times a week with friends, down to maybe once a week, if even that. (It once got so bad that it was maybe about 2-3 times a month! Embarrassing, I know.) Whenever I spend time with my friends I try to have my boyfriend come along so that he and I can be together but also so I can be with my friends; I also spend time with my boyfriend and his friends. However, I feel like there should be times when I should be alone with my boyfriend and times where it should just be me hanging out with my friends solo! I really, really want to find a good balance (it was my resolution after I entered this new relationships -- I really don't want to get lost in my boyfriend ever again) but I'm just not sure how to do it. Any advice (or examples) would be great! Link to comment
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