littlemissme Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 My ex and I broke up last October. I have kept in touch with his best friend just as friends. We have hung out, he’s done favors for me I’ve done favors for him, nothing sexual. It had been a couple of months since I heard form my ex’s best friend and he called me out of the blue to tell me that he would be going away for 6 months (military). I was invited to his going away party, had a great time, then we went out just us to catch up. We had a great time once again, he got a girl number I congratulated him. I drove him home, he got out of the car we said goodbye, I started to leave and he ran after my car and kissed me! I was awestruck, I left right away, we talked the next day, and we haven’t stopped talking. I realize that I’m walking a very thin line. I would never think of doing something like this, but there are so many things about him that I like. We seem to compliment each other in so many ways. I feel completely comfortable with him. I have tried to talk myself out of this, literally thinking of every reason not to talk or see him. Everything I think of I refute. Now I need advise. What would be the best way going about this? I don’t want to ruin a friendship. I would like for us to be happy without friends shunning us, or him loosing his best friend, he acts like he doesn’t care but I would rather him have his friend and explore us as a couple as well. Link to comment
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