MrRight Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Very, very funny. I went to South America for New Year 2008. Then my plane was delayed. In the airport Orlando, I was at the airport and saw this beautiful latina, apparently on her mid 20's, smiling at me. I did not resist and introduced myself. She is from Jamaica. Then next day I saw her at the same hotel I was having breakfast. At her table were two more people with her. They said were a sister and nephew. She continued to smile at me all the time. I invited her to join me. She invited me to join her instead. I accepted the invite. From there under table while were talking I held her hands. We went to downtown for the day and we kissed each other for the entire day. We exchanged phone numbers and e-mail. Back to the US, I attempted to call her. The phone number never worked. I gave up. Then last week, eight months after we met each other I received a call from her. She told me that she has been trying to reach me and the e-mail and phone never made sense to her until then. I think that makes sense, because the phone number she called appeared with different sequence of numbers than what she gave me. Apparently special digits being handled differently every time the person calls from that country. We said that were missing each other. She invited me to go to her country and STAY AT HER HOUSE, said her sister would like to see me again and mother was fine with my visit! I said that since I am going to Orlando soon, the first time we meet could be in Orlando. Question: Do you think I should accept and go to her house instead? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
littlestar Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Go for it. Not sure she is wanting sex from you though. She maybe wanting something more. Better to talk through things before doing anything to avoid confusion and heart ache afterwards. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Edak Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Question: Do you think I should accept and go to her house instead? Uhm. Yes. Why wouldn't you? Forgive me for the short answer. But really... Isn't this a no brainer? From the sounds of things you don't have to ask for Sex. It will progress that direction naturally. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gracerules2008 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 How to politely ask for sex? you don't. Don't ask at all. If she is interested in taking it to a sexual level then she will initiate sexual contact. Just be patient. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JadedStar Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 A woman as bold as she will initiate it if that is what this is about. no worries dude. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theWalla Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 I don't know. Maybe I'm not as adventurous as most. But I would feel uncomfortable accepting an invitation to go to a country I've never been to and staying with a person who I've only really met for a day. Do you really know this person? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
denise_14 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Why not? Go for it. play it cool. ^__^ Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MrRight Posted September 9, 2008 Author Share Posted September 9, 2008 First of all, I messed up with the subject line on this post. So ignore the title. I thought about it too. We have talked over the phone for three times in the last week. Usually there are children around and it sounds like a family oriented environment. It is true that we do not know each other much. For one thing, that is how most traditional Latin people are. They are way more approachable and easygoing. On the other hand, I thought about it too. I mean, what if something happens there and someone attempts to kidnap me or something like that... I will be totally on my own you know. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ghost69 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 who cares. you get to get away to a nice place if anything. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
theWalla Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 First of all, I messed up with the subject line on this post. So ignore the title. I thought about it too. We have talked over the phone for three times in the last week. Usually there are children around and it sounds like a family oriented environment. It is true that we do not know each other much. For one thing, that is how most traditional Latin people are. They are way more approachable and easygoing. On the other hand, I thought about it too. I mean, what if something happens there and someone attempts to kidnap me or something like that... I will be totally on my own you know. It is generally true, as a culture Latinos tend to be more family-oriented and hospitable. But still, you can't rely on stereotyping people. Can you stay at a hotel near where she lives maybe? That is what I would do. Of course, make that suggestion delicately, and be appreciative of her hospitable offers. But it's up to you man. Go with your gut, but always have a backup plan for yourself when you travel abroad. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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