bobbyl Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 hello all that read this, i hope most of you can help me i got a problem with this girl... first of all to start with her name is brianna the problem is i dont know is she is exactly using me? or playing me or what so i hope u can tell me in ur opinions what i should do.... its long to explain but ill put it short for you it all started i met her at a park and we both started to like each other then she told me she liked me a lot and such. and she had a bf (but i knew this at the start) and she told me she was gonna leave him cause he wasn't treating her like how she should of been. so then i walk her home and i asked her if u do leave him do you wana get together sometime and she goes yea. so i went home after that then the next day she seemed unlike her self she was not acting like her self and i found out she was mad at me and she started yelling at me and i was clueless to what was happening so then i just walked off and it made her more depressed so she comes running to me grabbing my hand and pulls me with her and she said we need to talk so we go talk and i guess she was upset cause someone told her i didn't wana be with her and i was just using her to get others jealous, which i dont understand why she didn't just ask me.... so i told her all that is BS and i told her i felt towards her and she told me she liked me a lot and that she wanted to kiss me but she cant cause of her bf so i said well ur gonna have to wait. so then after that talk we both walk up to the park holding hands for alittle everything going fine. Next ya know shes taking control she found out this other girl liked me and she goes up to her asking "do you like bobby" she replys "yes is that ok with you" so now the girl i like brianna dont like this girl at all now and bri told me she dont want me talking to this chich that likes me so i was like ehhh.... then i walked her home again... next day comes she was acting not her self again so we had another talk and i found out she broke up with her bf and i ask her well now what that ur single and she goes i wana stay single for a week or so then we can date so i said ok thats fine i can wait. then later on i found out she likes my best friend but she dont wana date him (thats what she told me) she wanted to be only with me but shes hanging all over him, calling him... so im kinda getting alittle jealous and i talk to her on the phone later that night asking her what does she really want cause im done playing these games she told me she wants me then she goes well idk anymore and she wants me to wait for her and then she tells me idk if we are gonna date cause i talk to my ex gf a lot and shes mad and such and i dont really see whys thats a problem... so now shes mad at me and i doubt she likes me anymore. so the main question i need help on is, is she really worth the wait for? i like this girl a lot but shes not acting like her self anymore from when we first met its like shes a hole new girl. shes flirting with my friends idk why but then when i talk to girls she gets hella pissed off. so honestly can anyone tell me whats going on or what should i do cause i tried just about everything... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Evalia82 Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 She sounds like she could mess with your mind. Well, it sounds like she already is. It seems a bit like you need to not see each other for the week or so while she sorts herself out having broken up with her bf. After that week, if you're both ready to date, go for it. But you need to come to an understanding that either both of you are allowed to talk to members of the opposite sex, and if the other person feels really threatened, then you talk it through rather than going in a huff or getting mad. It sounds like she likes you, but could be someone who is more trouble than she's worth, so tread carefully and look out for yourself. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SupaflyTNT Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Some people are just basically screwed up. This is one of them. I would stay far, far away from this person if I were you. Not worth the incredible trouble it's going to cause you to figure her out. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kuhl282000 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 The choice is totally up to you Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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