emalkoc Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Lets start a thread to hear your initial dating questions How to detect immaturity, red flags, compatibility issues, etc. What would you ask your in your 1st date? cheers Link to comment
Abbygail Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Are you supposed to celebrate your one month anniversary? I'm a woman and I don't know if a girl doing something for her boyfriend on this day is too much too soon... gahhh. Link to comment
Night Pumpkin Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Celebrating a one month anniverary is very important, as in celebrating three months, 6 months, and then every year on ward. We went out for dinner on our 1st anniversary at the Old Spaghetti Factory, and went to Death by Chocolate on our 2nd. Link to comment
emalkoc Posted September 8, 2008 Author Share Posted September 8, 2008 Are you supposed to celebrate your one month anniversary? I'm a woman and I don't know if a girl doing something for her boyfriend on this day is too much too soon... gahhh. Do whatever makes you happy without expecting returns! Then you will always be happy! regards to your question, my ex-gf before used to celebrate every other week in first year. The current one we just celebrated our 6 mos anniversary... but thats not the intent of my thread...Maybe it was not clear enough??? what would you ask to your date? cheers Link to comment
Abbygail Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Ohh I get it now... sorry, lol. I thought you were offering to give advice on the things you listed in your original post. One thing I would ask is, "Have you ever cheated on anyone in the past?" Not on the first few dates of course, but before we decided to go exclusive. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Glad someone startec a thread like this, this is what I need to read Link to comment
DaBladeRoden Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 How do I create chemistry with someone? Link to comment
emalkoc Posted September 8, 2008 Author Share Posted September 8, 2008 here are some of mine 1st date questions, soft landing 1- How does your family spend holidays? 2- Do you like Star Wars or BSG? 3- How do you spend your day-offs? 4- Do you like Jack Johnson? 5- What is your fave romantic comedy movie? 6- Do you like your job? will continue.... Link to comment
Stars_n_Guitars Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Are you supposed to celebrate your one month anniversary? I'm a woman and I don't know if a girl doing something for her boyfriend on this day is too much too soon... gahhh. an ANNIversary is yearly.... Link to comment
Stars_n_Guitars Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 How do I create chemistry with someone? You can't create chemistry. You can do things together but that creates compatibility. Link to comment
Stars_n_Guitars Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 here are some of mine 1st date questions, soft landing 1- How does your family spend holidays? 2- Do you like Star Wars or BSG? 3- How do you spend your day-offs? 4- Do you like Jack Johnson? 5- What is your fave romantic comedy movie? 6- Do you like your job? will continue.... Are you wanting to know what our serious dating questions are? or are you telling folk to ask you their serious dating questions? Link to comment
DaBladeRoden Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Okay how to I covert other forms of something into chemistry? Link to comment
emalkoc Posted September 8, 2008 Author Share Posted September 8, 2008 Are you wanting to know what our serious dating questions are? ? btw...this is just an intellectual poll Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 here are some of mine 1st date questions, soft landing 1- How does your family spend holidays? 2- Do you like Star Wars or BSG? 3- How do you spend your day-offs? 4- Do you like Jack Johnson? 5- What is your fave romantic comedy movie? 6- Do you like your job? will continue.... I like 1, 3 and 6 and would probably ask those questions as well. I would also ask them what hobbies they have and which ones they are most passionate about. Oh, yeah, most important...I would ask if they like dogs! Link to comment
rocio Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Are you supposed to celebrate your one month anniversary? I'm a woman and I don't know if a girl doing something for her boyfriend on this day is too much too soon... gahhh. Oh God yes - it's way too soon! an ANNIversary is yearly.... Thank you. Regarding the original question, I wouldn't ask any personal questions on a first date. The first few dates should be an opportunity to see if your personalities click, if the attraction is there, and to slowly get to know a bit about the person. Link to comment
CaptainPlanet Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Lets start a thread to hear your initial dating questions How to detect immaturity, red flags, compatibility issues, etc. What would you ask your in your 1st date? cheers Do you like pasta ? Link to comment
Portage Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 How do i turn dating into something fun and not a god forsaken Chore?? Answer me NOW!@! Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 i could write stuff forever as to what i would say on a 1st date. could be anything. portage, it's only a chore if you make it one. Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 here are some of mine 1st date questions, soft landing 1- How does your family spend holidays? 2- Do you like Star Wars or BSG? 3- How do you spend your day-offs? 4- Do you like Jack Johnson? 5- What is your fave romantic comedy movie? 6- Do you like your job? will continue.... Why should you care whether or not a female likes her job? Link to comment
emalkoc Posted September 8, 2008 Author Share Posted September 8, 2008 Why should you care whether or not a female likes her job? because I dont like to date the ones who dont have a career life! Link to comment
ConfusedDater Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 because I dont like to date the ones who dont have a career life! Well I don't get in to whether a woman is happy at her job, it's not like I have a better job in my pocket if she says she hates her job Link to comment
Crazyaboutdogs Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Well I don't get in to whether a woman is happy at her job, it's not like I have a better job in my pocket if she says she hates her job You don't have to...it is just part of learning about the other person. Work makes up a big chunk out of a person's day so asking about work is part of getting to know them. Link to comment
emalkoc Posted September 8, 2008 Author Share Posted September 8, 2008 You don't have to...it is just part of learning about the other person. Work makes up a big chunk out of a person's day so asking about work is part of getting to know them. exactly! There are a lot of people (man or woman) are disgruntled about their work and bring their misery to their partner daily and yet to fix it...I am not saying the circumstances and short term issues at work dictate a person's who they are about but it will give good idea most of the time... Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Why should you care whether or not a female likes her job? Well I don't get in to whether a woman is happy at her job, it's not like I have a better job in my pocket if she says she hates her job general conversation man. geez. Link to comment
emalkoc Posted September 8, 2008 Author Share Posted September 8, 2008 let me add another one 7- How do you like Obama? Link to comment
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