blackandgold Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 I broke up with my ex at the beginning of Summer after finding out he had cheated on me. Since then we have began to see each other as friends. We hang out, have fun, and it's a very chill friendship. He's seeing another girl, she's great we've actually become friends of sorts. He seems to have moved on, as have I. One of my really good guy friends is interested in me and I've had feelings towards him for a long time, however he's also best friends with my ex. It really seems like he's moved on but for some reason he seems to get a little bit pissed off when any hint of anything going on between me and our friend is mentioned from anyone. I don't know am I crossing a line by wanting to date his best friend? He is my friend as well and I do really like him. Just looking for some opinions. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shentar Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 My first thought was that it would be okay as long as your friend approved, but ultimately its about what will make you happy. Dating your friend's friend isn't low down or dirty, and since you are and your ex are over each other, I say go for it and be happy. If your ex has a problem, just lay it out. Get the ex to tell you why he gets upset about it. A friend should tell you. Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blackandgold Posted September 8, 2008 Author Share Posted September 8, 2008 My first thought was that it would be okay as long as your friend approved, but ultimately its about what will make you happy. Dating your friend's friend isn't low down or dirty, and since you are and your ex are over each other, I say go for it and be happy. If your ex has a problem, just lay it out. Get the ex to tell you why he gets upset about it. A friend should tell you. Good luck It's my exs best friend not just a friends friend. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shentar Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 It's my exs best friend not just a friends friend. Sorry, I misread that your ex was a friend now. What I said still stands, I think you should go for it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheSmilingTurnip Posted September 8, 2008 Share Posted September 8, 2008 Well, it depends. Basically, are you willing to lose your friendship with your ex if you date his best friend? You might be risking that. Do you think it would help to talk with your ex and talk it out for the sake of your newfound friendship before you start dating his best friend? Are you concerned that the best friend might share things that he shouldn't with your ex? These are some things to consider when making your decision. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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