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so me and my ex have been broken up for about 3 months (together for 2 yrs).... we still love each other and continue to speak everyday however he has a new gf. I am still a tad confused how he was able to get a new gf about a month after we broke up. this situation has been extremely hard for me. I want to0 be with him and he knows this however he is with someone else. this gurl is younger than him and i found out who she is.... i want him to know that i know who she is because it hurts to know that she used to work with him. I also want him to know that i feel as though she is tryin to trap him (get pregnant) . he tells me im his everything and the only one he trusts...i let him know that i miss him and he said he missed me too and that he wishes things between me and him wouldnt have got to this point. I regret deeply breaking up with him and we planned on moving in ...he wanted to have a baby and im sure within the next 6 months if we were stilll together we would possibly be engaged. i just dont know what to do.... i want to be in his life...but knowing i am not his first priority just hurts. I did everything for him and i just dont know how he could replace me so quickly. What do ya'll think i need to do....i honestly dont want to give up on me and him.

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He may be telling you that you're his everything, and the only one he trusts, but, the bottom line is that he remains with his girlfriend.


Not to make you feel bad, but you need to look at this for what it is, he's talking the talk, but not walking the walk.


Since you're agreeing to talk to him every day, he has no reason to reconsider what he wants. Also, he's two timing this other girl, which is not fair to her.


You might consider breaking off all contact with this guy, otherwise he's having the best of both worlds.


Take care...

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How you have managed to stay friends with him is beyond me. I don't think I could ever be friends with someone that I love when they are in a relationship with someone else. I would want to die. I know it is easier said then done but you really ought to find a way to move on. Cause at the end of the day it will be your heart that will be shattered into million pieces. Unless you know for a fact that you could win him back. In that case you should do everything in your power to make things right between the two of you.

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it is extremely hard to be his friend and i told him that it is hard for me .... i told him that we can either work it out or go our separate ways and he was very upset when i mentioned going our separate ways. that same day he said he was scared and that he doesnt want to lose me. but i still continue to think if thats the case then why isnt he with me. this has been going on for two months now. i still see him... the sad thing is his family still thinks we are together. But i think i might need to let him miss me...because at this point he thinks that i am always going to be there no matter what. I just wish this fool would realize he is making a mistake

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