ahop Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 So on Friday I broke NC after 3 1/2 months with my ex by sending her a text to see if she would like to hang out sometime. She responded saying that it wouldn't be a good idea because she's seeing someone now. I was expecting to hear that but what I wasn't expecting was to get 3 calls from friends all informing me that she is now dating a guy that I know through mutual friends of ours. I was obviously distraught. What really irks me is that this guy is a complete loose cannon. He drinks a bottle of Jack Daniels almost everyday and tries to get on any girl that is not taken. My ex has known him since elementary school and has been friends with him since then.. She used to be his wing man when at bars or events to pick up nasty * * * * s! And now she's dating him.. I couldn't believe it. I of course got drunk with my friends on Friday and I sent her a message reminding her that she used to help him pick up nasty girls.. ( Stupid to do I know ) She never responded to it. I know it was stupid to do but I had to get my point accross and she knows it's true so she can dwell on that. I had a rough few days but now I completely realize that I was pining over a girl that to told me she loved me one day and then said she had a change of heart the next.. I always wanted to believe that she was a sweet girl but this just showed her true colors. Of course I'm still somewhat pissed and disgusted at her for this. But this is what I needed to shut the door on her and my stupid romanticizing thoughts of her. She isn't worth one second of my mind anymore! It's been a rough weekend but I know this was a blessing in disguise. And it was good that I found out about them before I would ever see them together.. That could have been a disaster. Link to comment
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