can you help me?

[lovelydiane]

I am in the process of recovery from a failed relationship; I decided to get back into dating again. do you think it’s the right thing to do? I feel that am still not yet ready to have my heart broken again but life is too short to live in sadness. i really need your help.

[NewPhillyGuy]

I am in the process of recovery from a failed relationship; I decided to get back into dating again. do you think it’s the right thing to do? I feel that am still not yet ready to have my heart broken again but life is too short to live in sadness. i really need your help.

 

how long has it been?

I am guessing that you are writing because you met someone new.

 

Just think this one through. You could wind up hurting the other person. Consider this...if your ex decided to come back to you in 2 months, what would you say to the new guy?

[ghost69]

if you aren't ready, you aren't ready.

[LanceVanceDance]

It's hard to say without more info.

 

But one thing's for sure, life doesn't wait for you. The time you spend grieving instead of enjoying yourself is time wasted, so don't grieve more than necessary.

[ImThatGirl]

I am in the process of recovery from a failed relationship; I decided to get back into dating again. do you think it’s the right thing to do? I feel that am still not yet ready to have my heart broken again but life is too short to live in sadness. i really need your help.

 

In the process of recovery should not include dating others in my opinion.

 

How recent was the break up? What have you learned since the break up? Have you taken time to grieve, time for you?

 

Sometimes when we date again too early, the disappointments of dating are hugely intensified or we make hasty decisions out of desire to feel accepted again.