Jim2007 Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 Been broken up for about 2 months, NC since Aug 17th. We both agreed It would be best to call her when I'm done with my therapy at the end of August. Would it hurt to send an email just to ask how things are going? or would it be best to stick to the deal and go NC. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orangesoda Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 I don't think it will hurt anyone, your or her, if you continue NC for a while longer. Actually, I think it will probably help a whole lot more. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
StillSmiling Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 You already know the answer. I have no claim to fame, but know the trail you are walking ... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim2007 Posted September 7, 2008 Author Share Posted September 7, 2008 sorry long night, we agreed I would call when my therapy is done at the end of OCTOBER not august :S Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
orangesoda Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 in that case, then no, an email just to say hi is not really an email just to say hi. if you know what i mean. you're already in sept. when october ends, i think you'll be in a better place to just say hi or even have a normal conversation. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mock Chop Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 Focus on your therapy and stick to your word, even if it cripples you to do so. The therapy is the most important thing (I know this as I'm doing the same thing myself - with no desire from my ex to hear from me about it/at the end of it). I'm going to do it as long as it takes Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim2007 Posted September 9, 2008 Author Share Posted September 9, 2008 OK I've been doing a lot of thinking lately and I've come to the conclusion that I don't want to talk to her at all even after therapy is done. Should I just never call and leave her hanging or should I send a farewell message. Closure might be good here? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
pumpkinmoon Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 If you feel that way then I wouldn't bother making any contact. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim2007 Posted September 9, 2008 Author Share Posted September 9, 2008 Well I found out she lied about this "guy" who she says she barely sees (hes her rebound). They went out while we were still dating. Anyways so a mutual friend tags her on facebook and they were at a club dancing together. Anyways I need to move on, but should i just leave her hanging or no? I did say I'd call later on in a few months. I am totally over this, if she did respond it wouldnt have any sort of negative effect on me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dead Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 i feel you are looking for assurance as to whether or not to contact her. You say you are totally over her so if this is so, you should have no desire to contact her. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maka56 Posted September 9, 2008 Share Posted September 9, 2008 Who dumped who?. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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