renaissancewoman101 Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 I know there is practice today (not sure about the time but could find out easily) and he and his wife would probably be there. Should I go to it? Practice is a great place to socialize and mingle with others and get to know them. I'm just not sure what they would think if I showed up to Sunday practice. Don't want people to think I am clinging too much to their friendship. I do miss seeing them. When I talked to her last, I told her I would be at practice on Wed (there is Sunday and Wed practices). Would the wise thing be to just go to Wed practice and let that be that? Background info: Link to comment
Batya33 Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 Sure, just spend minimal time with them even if they seem to invite you to spend more time. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted September 7, 2008 Author Share Posted September 7, 2008 Sure, just spend minimal time with them even if they seem to invite you to spend more time. They didn't ask if I was coming to this practice. He had just mentioned last Wed that they would be at this practice. I'm actually sort of leaning towards not going. Don't want to seem like I'm chasing this friendship. I just don't have much plans today except to do laundry and get some grocery shopping done and was a bit bored. Link to comment
HellFrost666 Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 If you do go, I doubt anyone will think you are clingy. Link to comment
annie17 Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 Don't you think it might seem weird if you don't go? Like you're avoiding something? How weird would it seem if you don't show up? Would it be obvious that you aren't there, or wouldn't anyone think anything of it? Link to comment
Batya33 Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 They didn't ask if I was coming to this practice. He had just mentioned last Wed that they would be at this practice. I'm actually sort of leaning towards not going. Don't want to seem like I'm chasing this friendship. I just don't have much plans today except to do laundry and get some grocery shopping done and was a bit bored. Why can't you go and hang out with others? Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted September 7, 2008 Author Share Posted September 7, 2008 Annie17, I'm not sure. I went to last Wed's practice because I also had a meeting in the building next to it. I do know about Sunday practice because other people had mentioned it to me, and he had said it out loud last Wed. I really don't know a lot of people at practice except him and his wife. I just don't want to be seen as someone who was tagging along. I'm not sure what I want to do. I could also socialize with others there too. I never mentioned I would be going to practice on Sunday. WHen he said it out loud last week, all I said was on weekends I'm usually up in LA. They did not ask me if I was going to be at this practice. As usual, I overthink things. I absolutely CANNOT get too attached to these people. It is not good for me to do that. Batya, reason why I probably would not be able to hang out with others is because, besides the both of them and one other girl, I don't know that many people at practice yet. And I don't want to stick out like a sore thumb, if I am standing there not sure what to do. Maybe it's better not to go, and just go on Wed and start getting to know other people there and then start going on Sundays when I know more people (the people who go on Wed to socialize and watch the practice, usually also go on Sundays, from what I've heard). Link to comment
annie17 Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 That sounds reasonable (to go to Wed. practice and not Sun. practice until you know more people). Honestly, though, do you think this guy has a crush on you? Or do you have a little crush on him? I just get that feeling somehow. Link to comment
diamond78 Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 Well, why don't you just go to Wednesday's practice? That way you won't be worried all day today and you'll still see your friends in a couple of days. Whatever you decide to choose, just make sure you mingle with others besides your friends... Link to comment
Batya33 Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 I would go today only if you are willing to put in the effort to approach and talk to other people. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted September 7, 2008 Author Share Posted September 7, 2008 I found out, via the website, that practice is at noon. I'm still on the fencepost about going. I probably won't go though because I'm a bit chicken about this. Annie17, I do have a tad of a crush on the guy. I know I shouldn't though. Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted September 7, 2008 Author Share Posted September 7, 2008 Yes, now I know I am chicken crap about this. It's about noon. I still want to go there and see if they are around, but I'm too chicken. Ugh! Maybe I'll just take a drive around there. I dunno. Why the hell do I worry so much about things?????? Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted September 7, 2008 Author Share Posted September 7, 2008 Still can't decide. Now it's 1 PM. Really tempted to just drive by there. It's not that far away. Only problem is the parking lot is right by the practice area and I would have to drive INTO the parking lot to see who's around and the parking lot is real small I think I am a tad too chicken to do this. Link to comment
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