unicornfur Posted September 7, 2008 Share Posted September 7, 2008 my boyfriend and i of 3 years broke up 3 weeks ago. it was (in my opinion) completely out of the blue, and i was crushed. we went to college togehter, and when we graduated in may, i moved three hours away. until 2 days before the break up, he was actively trying to find a job near me, and move so that we could be closer together. then, i went to visit him, and he broke up with me immediately. he said he needs time alone to find himself, and that i didn't do anything wrong. but now, just 3 weeks later, he is dating other people, and apparently doesn't miss me at all, because he doesn't return my calls or e-mails, nor does he seem at all interested in how i'm doing. i miss him more than anything, he was my best friend and helped me through 3 very hard years. i feel that without any kind of closure, i can't move on. i had no idea the break up was coming, as 2 days before he was telling me he loved me, couldn't wait to see me, and wanted us to move closer together. however, i know no closure is coming, so i don't know how i can go about being whole again. when i'm with friends, i'm fine, but becuase i recently moved to this new place and i work and am in school all the time, i don't know a ton of people, and when i'm alone, it feels like someone punched me in the stomach at all times becuase i miss him so bad. i keep thinking he'll realise he made a mistake, but that is becoming more and more unlikley as he goes longer and longer without bothering to call me, and continues to date more new people. i don't know how to start moving on. Link to comment
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