Brokenhearted? This will help put things in perspective

[tutu79]

For those of you going through the long, hard process of mending a broken heart....

Read each one carefully and Think about it for a second or two.

 

1. No man or woman is worth your tears, and the one who is, won't make you cry.

 

2. Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want them to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all you have.

 

3. The worst way to miss someone is to be sitting right beside them knowing you can't have them.

 

4. A true friend is someone who reaches for your hand and touches ur heart.

 

5. Don't waste your time on a man/woman who isn't willing to waste their time on you.

 

6. Never frown, even when you are sad, because you never know who is falling in love with your smile.

 

7. To the world you may be one person, but to one person you may be the world.

 

8. Maybe God wants us o meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.

 

9. Don't cry because it is over, smile because it happened.

 

10. There are always going to be people who hurt you so what you have to do is keep on trusting and just be more careful about who you trust the next time around.

 

11. Make yourself a better person and know who you are before you try and know someone else and expect then to know you.

 

12. Don't try so hard, the best things come when you least expect them to.

 

REMEMBER: WHATEVER HAPPENS, HAPPENS FOR A REASON!!!

 

Like many of you who read this forum, I had my heartbroken for the first (and hopefully only time) last summer. It takes awhile to get over the hurt but if you are having a weak moment, just sit and think to yourself "Was he/she really that great?" I always made the mistake of missing the kind of person I fell in love with in the beginning, not the person who he became the last six months of our relationship which was someone who made me cry more than he made me happy. Hope this helps and good luck!

[sueblue]

Tutu 79,

 

This message is awsome it gives me encouragment! It sucks having to be strong all the time sometimes I get really tried of having to come up with things to help me through tough times so this is really good of you to post . I will keep this post with me when times get tough. Thanks.

[cobro]

Very good tips, it made me feel better just reading them. I especially agree with getting to know yourself and improving yourself before you get ready to venture out into the dating world again. Thats what I'm doing right now. Thanks for the post.

[1Adam12]

this is an excellent post all of the points made certainly make a lot of sense when you stop and think about each one. Thanks for the post it gave me some encouragement

[Chupa Chup]

thank you so much for posting those encouraging lines. how true they are? i especially like the one that says:

 

8. Maybe God wants us to meet a few wrong people before meeting the right one, so that when we finally meet the person, we will know how to be grateful.

 

it helps encourage my heart and many people's too. i hope you'll start healing inside as well. take care yah?

 

ps: what a lovely way to start the day with encouraging words like that!

[anonymous1990]

this is really true.

Even if u really love someone but you cant be with them for whatever reason doesnt mean theres nobody else. At times you may feel like yo need them and you will never find somebody else like them again but thats not always true. It may take a while to meet someone new but you will. I really like that quote: dont cry cause its over, smile cause it happened.

[Dieselmetfan]

Hi, I like this post a lot. But I have a question. Everytime I read post like these and others to help deal with the breakup, I feel stronger and really want to do them. But I won't feel that way all the time. Like the next day, I would feel differently. How do I get advice and stick to them permanantly without questioning them all the time?

[Michael2]

Hi, I like this post a lot. But I have a question. Everytime I read post like these and others to help deal with the breakup, I feel stronger and really want to do them. But I won't feel that way all the time. Like the next day, I would feel differently. How do I get advice and stick to them permanantly without questioning them all the time?

 

I question I ponder every day. I wish there were an answer. I believe the answer lies in time. During a braekup your emotions and heart are on a rollarcoaster, at times you are happy and others you feel as if you can't even roll out of bed. You have to look forward to what the future has to bring. Remember that we all still have years to live, and in time we will be happy again, and more importantly we will be with those who love us for who are.