Do you think its better?

[civilservant]

My fellow ENA gurus,

 

Simple question really, does anyone think its a good idea just to tell someone how you think about them?

 

For example, just to come out with "I'm crazy about you" and to he'll with the consequences? I'm really thinking itd be better to tell her what she means to me and leave it at that.

 

At the end of the day when youve said it its out there, and what will be will be.

 

Anyone agree?

[Timebandit]

My fellow ENA gurus,

 

Simple question really, does anyone think its a good idea just to tell someone how you think about them?

 

It really depends on what you want to achieve. If it is someone who you hope to have a romantic relationship with, I suggest you flirt more and become more intimate instead of blurting out your emotions.

 

But compliments are always a good thing

[civilservant]

LOL, yep I would agree if it was some random stranger! Its actually the ex, we've reconnected recently and there's still that spark there, and the reason we split isn't really relevant anymore

[Timebandit]

LOL, yep I would agree if it was some random stranger! Its actually the ex, we've reconnected recently and there's still that spark there, and the reason we split isn't really relevant anymore

 

Then I would you say something in the line of "I like that we have reconnected. I can feel some of that old spark reappear. How do you feel about us?"

 

I am not in favour of "I'm crazy about you" messages coming out of the blue air. But perhaps she is...? ;-)

[civilservant]

Yeah that'd the sensible way, dont have the guts though! I suppose in has to be said however as I dont wanna end up friendzoned

[RougeKali823]

Yes, just tell her how you feel.

[Scorpion-88]

Sure, Go for it Lol-- Like what have you got to lose?

[civilservant]

Sure, Go for it Lol-- Like what have you got to lose?

 

Nothing-apart from self respect!

[D_Lish]

Shy kids get no sweeties ....lol

 

I've been in this situation before, where I've reconnected with an ex....and he was hard to figure out. He would say some things that made me think 'interested' and then other things that made me think 'not interested in that way' anymore. And so because I couldn't 'read' him, I never let on my feelings and kept quiet....

 

Its up to the man to make the move, cuz we women won't....

[Timebandit]

Nothing-apart from self respect!

 

You will lose your self-respect by staying passive.

[civilservant]

Shy kids get no sweeties ....lol

 

I've been in this situation before, where I've reconnected with an ex....and he was hard to figure out. He would say some things that made me think 'interested' and then other things that made me think 'not interested in that way' anymore. And so because I couldn't 'read' him, I never let on my feelings and kept quiet....

 

Its up to the man to make the move, cuz we women won't....

 

And the 'most relevant advice' award goes to-

 

D-lish!

 

So would you have prefer he had laid it on the line?

[bijoux27]

In your case since it's an ex then.....blurt it out!!

[D_Lish]

And the 'most relevant advice' award goes to-

 

D-lish!

 

So would you have prefer he had laid it on the line?

 

Yes I would have. But he didn't. Like I said, he was saying 'positive' things, that suggested 'interest' still....but other things he'd say, made me think otherwise. So of course, that put me off, saying how I was feeling..

But you know, he could have been waiting for some sign from me....but because I wasn't picking anything up from him, that spelled, 'I want you back'...I kinda played it cool...lol

 

We aren't mind readers and we don't know, unless you actually tell us.