I'm tired

[healthseeker]

I never said that's how much sleep he gets a night. I was simply giving an extreme example. He probably averages 7 hours.

 

BTW, compared to his mechanical engineering degree (he also has a business minor and is working towards an industrial engineering degree accelerated MBA), this is all easy work...busy work but easy nonetheless. The busy works comes from all the meetings and crap that they make him attend that has no point. I'll be getting me M.S. in Industrial Engineering that's for sure.

 

BTW, he doesn't "study". He's the student that can party the previous night, walk in hung over and ace a test. He did that for our ergonomics final and for his GMAT (got a 730 and never prepared). Been in college for 6 years so it obviously isn't affecting his ability to do well. ](*,)

 

I think there is some selfish immaturity going on here.

[JadedStar]

The only reason I am deciding not to take anyone's advice is because I have realized that no one other than me and my good friends will know just what I am going through. Y'all can assume anything you want but maybe I have just outgrown the community. Sometimes I blame my last breakup a result of the advice that slowly made its way into my head. I was content before people started twisting reality around.

 

No one knows the full story behind what I write except those that know it personally. It is also hard to sit down and explain everything to everyone.

 

I'm just bitter with some of the advice thrown out there who do not take my feelings into consideration.

 

Geesh! Yea if you cant take the advice objectively then perhaps you DO need a break.

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[JeckyllNHyde]

The only reason I am deciding not to take anyone's advice is because I have realized that no one other than me and my good friends will know just what I am going through. Y'all can assume anything you want but maybe I have just outgrown the community. Sometimes I blame my last breakup a result of the advice that slowly made its way into my head. I was content before people started twisting reality around.

 

No one knows the full story behind what I write except those that know it personally. It is also hard to sit down and explain everything to everyone.

 

I'm just bitter with some of the advice thrown out there who do not take my feelings into consideration.

 

yes, alot of times advice is given which may not be right for you but it's only based on what you explain. it happens in the real world too. people don't read minds.

sometimes i also get advice about a situation which is good advice, but it's just that perhaps not all factors are taken into account. not b/c people are inconsiderate, but b/c sometimes there's no way for them to know all these factors.. especially if you don't explain it all.

 

you need to take the advice with a grain of salt and also decide for yourself what works, and what doesn't. if you feel deep down the advice given is wrong, dont take it.

[dragonzeyez]

Sounds to me like you decided to ignore the advice given here because it simply was not what you wanted to hear. Take my advice on this, if you push your guy for more sex right now when he is not up for it, he will loose interest in it completely.

[Lamprey]

wait 10 times a week is a low drive? like, is that seriously considered low? because even while my husband and i were dating and only about three months into sex, we were not doing it that much. i may have wanted it that much, but about twice a week is enough for him. i thought i had a high drive but maybe i was wrong. if 10 is low, i can tell my husband to stop calling me his little nympho XD

 

I thought it was; it certainly is lower than hers. In any case, when there's a disconnect in how much each side "wants it" the simple solution is for both to make an effort to meet the other in the middle.

 

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Twice a week while you were only 3 months into sex? There must've been some mitigating circumstances like you only managed to see each other twice a week, otherwise... even for me, that'd be way too little!

[sharsachan]

I thought it was; it certainly is lower than hers. In any case, when there's a disconnect in how much each side "wants it" the simple solution is for both to make an effort to meet the other in the middle.

 

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Twice a week while you were only 3 months into sex? There must've been some mitigating circumstances like you only managed to see each other twice a week, otherwise... even for me, that'd be way too little!

 

 

 

lol no we were living together!! my husband's drive is practically non existant though. but we work it out and we deal XD once in awhile we'll go through a phase where we do it every night and sometimes we'll not do it for two or three weeks straight but on average it's about one or two times a week

[dragonzeyez]

lower then average!! holy smokes dude. honostly, for me i get bored with sex if i do it more then 3 times a week. you go 10+ and think that is low. wow lol. 3 times a week is PLENTY for me lol.

[dragonzeyez]

lol no we were living together!! my husband's drive is practically non existant though. but we work it out and we deal XD once in awhile we'll go through a phase where we do it every night and sometimes we'll not do it for two or three weeks straight but on average it's about one or two times a week

 

lol aint that just so odd!! every case i hear of like this, either the womens drive is way way way lower then the guys, or 10x his! lol, why oh why could nature just have balanced us out. guess that gives us stuff to work on and make things stronger in the relationship together. my gf's drive is about twice mine, so not too bad.

[cichlid]

People assume that I am pushing for more sex with my BF and that I am calling him up complaining all the time or something. Or that my sex drive is so high.

 

I hate this community for what it has become. There I said it. I hate spilling my heart out in other posts, no replies for advice that I really need. I hate the fact that there are a few bad members that seem to hate men that tell me I must not be happy in my relationship or that my BF is abusive, etc. That is when it isn't true!

[JeckyllNHyde]

People assume that I am pushing for more sex with my BF and that I am calling him up complaining all the time or something. Or that my sex drive is so high.

 

I hate this community for what it has become. There I said it. I hate spilling my heart out in other posts, no replies for advice that I really need. I hate the fact that there are a few bad members that seem to hate men that tell me I must not be happy in my relationship or that my BF is abusive, etc. That is when it isn't true!

 

no one said he was abusive or that your not happy. you said your unhappy with the way things are in the bedroom...

 

anyhways, best of luck to u