I will say ONE good thing about my "mother".

[scared and alone]

Despite the fact that I haven't had her as a real mom in 13 years. (she was a great mom before that. a real mom) When I was depressed and I honestly could not take it anymore ( I was 19 and i'm 24 now), and I woke her up in the middle of the night (when my stupid bf was about to leave me for somebody else) she sat with me in the dark, listened to me crying and I opened to her about everything (including SI) and she actually understood and didnt freak out on me (i thought she was gonna try to lock me in a looney bin, she even admitted to me she did that when she was a teen too). It was nice to be able to have my mom when I REALLY needed to talk to her. And after my dumb bf broke up with me, she just told me I was young and he wasnt worth the tears. But, I was I really didnt want to wake her up in the middle of the night, I didnt think she'd get up and hear me. But she did. I honestly didn't have a choice though. I was dying inside and needed a parent to cry to. I wish I had that mom back. A mom that didnt throw religion into everything that just talked to me as mother and daughter, and thats it. I remember that night perfectly. In an odd way, I kinda miss it (even though I was in severe emotional pain).

[lovecrazy]

Can you explain a little more about your mother? How did she change? How has she not been supportive?

 

I can understand. My mother is a women I trust with my life. I admire her, love her and respect her. My mother has 5 kids, but she always makes time for each one, when we need her help. My mother is a religious person to an extent, but she doesnt push it in my face "God wouldnt do that" all she does is help me find a solution to a problem. and tell me everything will be ok.

 

Have you tried talking to your mother? That you miss the close relationship?

[scared and alone]

Can you explain a little more about your mother? How did she change? How has she not been supportive?

 

I can understand. My mother is a women I trust with my life. I admire her, love her and respect her. My mother has 5 kids, but she always makes time for each one, when we need her help. My mother is a religious person to an extent, but she doesnt push it in my face "God wouldnt do that" all she does is help me find a solution to a problem. and tell me everything will be ok.

 

Have you tried talking to your mother? That you miss the close relationship?

 

My mom just used to be a MOM. When I was in elementary school, then she cheated on my dad, got pregnant by another man in the middle of divorce (dont even get me started on that whole situation), basically ignored us after that. Then 2 years later she got pregnant AGAIN by another man. she didnt even tell my brothers dad he was his dad (we thought this other guy was) until my brother was like 2. My little sister doesnt even know my brothers dad isnt her dad. And not even a WEEK after my dad died , she let this man we didnt even know (he was a semi driver, my dad got killed by a semi) stay with us. she let all these guys we didnt even know in the house. Which was embarrassing because all my friends saw it. when my brother was just a baby, she left him with me and my sister and my dad so she could go to vegas with this guy she barely knew. and yeah, she always made us stay home so SHE could go out. THAT WAS MY CHILDHOOD LOST BECAUSE OF HER. She even called me from my friends house to make me come home to babysit so SHE could go out. I was basically raising 2 babies when I was 14. and now shes miss religion woman, shoving it down my throat, being a TOTAL hypocrite. In every way. Shes just FAKE. To the MAX. and she basically called my older sister an ungrateful snobby * * * * * which she is NOT. Her OWN DAUGHTER. Shes just cold hearted and uncaring. She will go out of her way to make you feel worthless and to let you know she is in control in any way. And no, she is impossible to talk to, because she can't and wont listen or change. Even when she SAYS she wants us to get along and all this other fake apology crap, that lasts like, a second.

 

yeah... thats just the tip of it. any other questions? lol