AppleTree12 Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 Hi, I'm 15 years old and I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. It is my first and longest relationship. We have done four-play, but not sex and I am in love with him. At least I think so. At about 2/3 months I felt this amazing feeling for him but now I've got to know him we have been arguing quite a lot in the last few days and I feel like I'm in love with him because I've be devastated if we broke up but I'm getting annoyed by him a lot and he's really pissing me off! If this true love, would I feel like this? Or is this just a natural test to see if our relationship is strong enough to get through this rough patch? Please tell me! Please, help me. Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 Welll at 15, its hard to know what true love is. You may be infatuated or lusting after him, relationships are hard work and full of drama especially when your young (im young myself) because you havent matured enough to deal with issues. I'd say dont sleep with him yet. Wait until your legal! Link to comment
redrose85 Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 Relationships go through ups and downs, it's normal. If you don't know if you are in love with him, you aren't. I think in this case you are in love with the idea of love. Link to comment
lana111 Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 well, no relationship is perfect, nor is anyone... BUT its one thing to have disagreements and such once in a while, and another to exhaust yourself with someone who annoys you and pisses you off. youre 15. there is no reason to be involved in a relationship that causes you any frustration. if you were 25 and in a long term relationship, id say to try and talk about what it is that annoys you in the relationship. but bc your 15 and been seeing this guy for 4 months, i would advise you to break it off, if you want. Link to comment
AppleTree12 Posted September 3, 2008 Author Share Posted September 3, 2008 well, no relationship is perfect, nor is anyone... BUT its one thing to have disagreements and such once in a while, and another to exhaust yourself with someone who annoys you and pisses you off. youre 15. there is no reason to be involved in a relationship that causes you any frustration. if you were 25 and in a long term relationship, id say to try and talk about what it is that annoys you in the relationship. but bc your 15 and been seeing this guy for 4 months, i would advise you to break it off, if you want. But he's so perfect and I do love him but at the same time he annoys me with the things he says, sometimes. He's very opinionated. He's 17 and is more mature than I am but I still do really really love him! Just sometimes he irritates me, obviously when we're arguing but not if we're getting along. This problem has only been happening for the past week. Link to comment
redhearts Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 Yeh, your young but hey your going to meet a lot of stupid, boring and some great guys in your life. Your still long this isn't long so if your not happy dump him! OH HMM hes 17! Well anyways what are your fights about? Link to comment
lana111 Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 well what irritates you about him? maybe you can talk to him about it if its innocent stuff... if he is opinionated, thats just him. my motto with stuff like that is "deal or walk" meaning, you deal/accept the way the person is or you leave the relationship. no use in trying to change someone. do you love/care for him enough that you can accept his opinionated ways? Link to comment
_Asti_ Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 Well this is where things either stay together or fall apart. Generally the first few months are all blissful, but that fades and you see the true person..like you are seeing...once that initial blissful feelings reside, you kinda get to see how a person truly is, and if you can accept this person and let things develop into something deeper...because at this point I truly don't think after 4 months, its to the point where the love has developed. Make a choice. If you can deal with this, talk with him, communicate maturely, work as a team, deal with this fights in a productive manner, don't sweat all the stupid small piddly things that you may fight over, it will work. Otherwise, it will probably just start falling apart if its not meant to be. You have to make a choice to make it work together..and that involves a great deal of team work. Link to comment
redhearts Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 The whole hes so perfect thing, your obviously vulnerable at the moment. Link to comment
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