djsh4dow Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 One of my gf's friends posted these pictures online from his cell phone of her with her shirt pinned up, exposing her stomach. This really annoys me. It's not the fact that her stomach is showing, per se. It's the fact that she only does things like that when she is drunk. I really hate witnessing the person I am dating getting drunk/high and showing lack of self control. About a year ago my girlfriend was really drunk and starting taking off her pants! The same guy who took these current pictures was standing there and saw her butt! I got really upset and went into another room. The other thing is we went on a long break this summer - about 2 months - and I didn't see her very often, especially around her friends. Seeing this makes me paranoid that there are other stupid things she did that I don't know about. I'm not about to come at her angrily or anything. I'm just annoyed. Is that irrational? Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 I wouldnt say you were being irrational. Id be irritated if my bf got drunk and started flashing his stuff on someones camera phone. Have you talked to her about it rationally and calmly? Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 She's sounds very immature. No, you're not being irrational. How old are you both? Link to comment
djsh4dow Posted September 3, 2008 Author Share Posted September 3, 2008 Not yet. I plan on it though. She'll probably call me in 30 minutes or so when she gets home from school. I don't know exactly what I should say though. I was thinking of just calmly telling her that I saw the pictures and asking her what the story is behind them. I don't want her to think I am accusing her of anything and then get defensive. Link to comment
djsh4dow Posted September 3, 2008 Author Share Posted September 3, 2008 I'm 21 and she turns 19 this month, so I've got a couple of years on her. She is mature for her age, but her immature side always shows itself. Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 she's an idiot and so is he. Link to comment
djsh4dow Posted September 3, 2008 Author Share Posted September 3, 2008 she's an idiot and so is he. Seriously - that was my first reaction. It's just plain retarded. (I assume you're speaking about her friend and not me) Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 Seriously - that was my first reaction. It's just plain retarded. (I assume you're speaking about her friend and not me) he as in her friend yes. otherwise i would have said YOU. she's an idiot for doing stuff like this around other guys and you not there. he's an idiot for encouraging it, taking pics, and internetting them. Link to comment
Clementine orange Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 This kind of thing is really common but doesn't make it any less idiotic. Smacks of low self-esteem actually. "Girls gone wild" evolve into "women with regrets" Link to comment
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