gardengnome Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 So, in further pondering about my sexuality, I was thinking... There is the mainstream gay crowd, with a lot of wacky hair and anorexically skinny guys and effeminate personalities. and then there is the bear crowd, that seems like an overy manly lumberjack, hairy, tattoo, leather wearing, biker group. besides, I'm not planning on hibernating anytime soon, and i would never use the word 'bear' to describe myself. that's kind of offensive to me. I'm not either of those, and wouldn't find a mate in either of those categories attractive either, although I find people with an effeminate personality are ok. What's in between the two? Do I need to start a new movement, or am I invisible because I'm just like a straight guy and never want to change the way I am? Link to comment
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