Atticus90 Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 My girlfriends mom has went over the line this time. She threatened to never let me see my son ever again and that I'm no longer welcome to their house. She said she was going to sue for child support. She called my family trash and she called me and the gf that we're horrible parents and that she's going to sue for custody. She said she no longer wants anything to do with Jacob or her and that she ripped the phones out of the wall. What happens if something happened to him? She wouldn't be able to call for help or anything. There's many other things that were said in the argument they had. So my gf and I decided that I'm getting him tomorrow so he can live with me. She doesn't trust her parents and think that they're a threat to his life and I agree. Her mom is clearly a bad influenced. It started with threatening to never let me see him again.. Then she started trying to pursuade my son that her mom and dad were the parents instead of us... Then she does this? I can't deal with it anymore so tomorrow, the change is going to happen. I have all the materials I need. We get 12 cans of milk from WIC and he's on medic aid. The only thing I'm worried about is how is my son going to see her mom? I don't know if her mom will bring her over here. I can't go over and get her, because I don't want her mom to try to get me for kidnapping or anything of that matter and I wont bring him over their, because her mom is just going to rob me of him and wont let me have him back. Then we'll be in another mess god forbid... What can I do? How will she be able to see him? Link to comment
dragon111 Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 ok, first whenever a child is involved everything must be done by the book, all these little questions and human things almost go out the window, even though they provide the drive behind any action. You must contact the appropriate services to infrom them of action taking place on your behalf and why and acquire appropriate papers if necessary. When children are involved there can be no messing about and no tug wars- your need for your childs safety is immediate and i trust that your perceptions are correct, so do this properly, and save the whole family and your child from much stress and trouble that will be generated if you don't do this properly and more importantly with the appropriate help- which ever services may apply in this case. Link to comment
Atticus90 Posted September 3, 2008 Author Share Posted September 3, 2008 I don't understand what you mean by contact the appropriate people? Why would I have to inform child services or whoever that I'm going to be doing this? I thought this was only between me and the mom of the child? Link to comment
just M.E. Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 For your g/f's sake and yours, it would be a good idea to draw up a statement or agreement stating that you have custody of this child by mutual agreement. Make sure you have everything needed to take proper care, make sure you don't make mistakes, you don't want to fuel this woman's accusations against you and your g/f. Link to comment
Atticus90 Posted September 3, 2008 Author Share Posted September 3, 2008 For your g/f's sake and yours, it would be a good idea to draw up a statement or agreement stating that you have custody of this child by mutual agreement. Make sure you have everything needed to take proper care, make sure you don't make mistakes, you don't want to fuel this woman's accusations against you and your g/f. all this should be done by a lawyer? or can I just draw it up on a piece of notebook paper and have her signature on it? Link to comment
renaissancewoman101 Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 This is turning into a custody battle. You're going to need a lawyer to make sure everything is done legally, so she doesn't accuse you of kidnapping the child or any such thing like that. And that can land you into MAJOR hot water. Be safe, make sure all everything is covered. Link to comment
TexasDad Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 How old is the mother of your child and I take it you are not married, if she is a minor (your girfriend that is) it can be tricky about custody, and I get the feeling she is a minor. Good luck but for sure have your girlfiend write it out an sign it that she is giving you temporary custody of the child for an indefinite period of time. Good Luck If she is a minor you may need the authorities involved. Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 Okay I'm confused... Your girlfriend is babies mom, correct? And baby lives with girlfriends parents and have been cared for by them? How old is your baby? How long have grandparents been caring for him? Was this something that was done legally or you all just kinda let them take over? Link to comment
ImThatGirl Posted September 3, 2008 Share Posted September 3, 2008 One more thing - How old is your girlfriend? Link to comment
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