drewciouS281 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 i know non of us feel your pain man and what your going through im sure is very rough but it sounds like you have alot of anger and before you can find a woman or even fix yourself you need to drop the anger. Otherwise you will stay this way. Link to comment
Mutley Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 all that i want is to be loved by at lest a half way good looking girl. only thing thats been interested in me is a fat goth w/ 3 lip rings and a guy * * * Fat goth girls need love too. Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 not my thing. dont like hippos Link to comment
Mutley Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 You know what they say, the bigger the body, the bigger the heart!!! Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 always was kinda p/oed since high school girl i like played w/ my mind Link to comment
Mutley Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 always was kinda p/oed since high school girl i like played w/ my mind and you think you're the only one??? Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 i know im not the only one just wanna kno y nothing good ever happens to me Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 yeah well that happens in life man. gotta get over it. nobody likes an angry person. that just pushes everyone away. nothing good keeps happening to you because thats your mind set. change it and things will change with it! Im living proof of that! Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 i know im not the only one just wanna kno y nothing good ever happens to me change your thinking. start BELIEVING good things will happen and they will. Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 yea was hopeing something good would come from that kari girl. cant even tell u guys how much i been thinking bout her past 2 weeks and still do. idk i mean maybe if she would get to know me more. we havnt even meet in person yet. just have so much in common Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 dont give up completely yet but FIRST you need to fix yourself. it doesnt sound like you are ready for a relationship right now. you have to take care of your physical and mental well being first. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 dont give up completely yet but FIRST you need to fix yourself. it doesnt sound like you are ready for a relationship right now. you have to take care of your physical and mental well being first. I agree with Drew on this. Change your thinking first. Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 yea i screwed this up need to work on some stuff Link to comment
Carmine Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 I've been there, dude. Went through mental hospitals...had people thinking I was some psycho, telling me that it's out of question to even develop friendships with people outside of my parents. While it does help to repair yourself first before you learn to love others, you shouldn't tell yourself that it's out of reach. They'll tell you that you need treatment and therapy...well, living a normal life is sometimes the best therapy you can get. Work on your life, but don't hold off on developing relationships, otherwise you'll find that a lot of your time was wasted. Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 yea i just dont kno ne more bout nething. dont know if i should give up on kari try being friends give up on life idk Link to comment
Hope_Springs_Eternal Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 youve been 'friend zoned' but only for the time being. If you work on yourself and learn to be a bit cheeky instead of nice, she might actually fancy you and chase you! Link to comment
May_It_Be Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 i just cant do this anymore i mean my life is all * * * * ed up cant work cant drive cant take care of myself cant find anyone to care about me. i wanna die That's so SAD! Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 i really messed up w/ her i know havnt even gone on a date n im all ready askin her out n all. what u mean by cheeky Link to comment
grymoire Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 youve been 'friend zoned' but only for the time being. If you work on yourself and learn to be a bit cheeky instead of nice, she might actually fancy you and chase you! i would not give him such false hopes because it usually never happens... if it happens it should be considered as an exception.... the OP is already feeling down and i do not think that he should be fed hopes about that girl Kari. even if he is cheeky or charming there is no way to tell that girl having friendzoned him in the first place would have a change of heart... the right thing to do in my opinion is for him to initiate No Contact with her and use that time to get his life back on.. and once he is fine he can pursue some other woman that would be willing to return his feelings... Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 i would not give him such false hopes because it usually never happens... if it happens it should be considered as an exception.... the OP is already feeling down and i do not think that he should be fed hopes about that girl Kari. even if he is cheeky or charming there is no way to tell that girl having friendzoned him in the first place would have a change of heart... the right thing to do in my opinion is for him to initiate No Contact with her and use that time to get his life back on.. and once he is fine he can pursue some other woman that would be willing to return his feelings... I agree. I think he needs to move on from Kari. Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 like ive been sayin i really messed up i would like to be friends w/ her get to know her first then if things work maybe date Link to comment
grymoire Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 like ive been sayin i really messed up i would like to be friends w/ her get to know her first then if things work maybe date you can't be friends first with a girl and then ask her for a date... usually it won't work.... please don't worry about this Kari... take some time for yourself and later you can pursue other women Link to comment
Hope_Springs_Eternal Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 the OP is already feeling down and i do not think that he should be fed hopes about that girl Kari. even if he is cheeky or charming there is no way to tell that girl having friendzoned him in the first place would have a change of heart... QUOTE] True, but I disagree. I think he needs hope because he appears to feel hopeless. OP, forget the physical stuff ie, your arm. Girls can see past things like that if your personality gives them a lift. A guy I ended up adoring had a bad limp from a bike crash, He coudnt walk properly but he was hilarious and if he hadnt had a g/f I would have snapped him up. You need to write down the GOOD things that happen to you/have happened to you, so you can see that in fact there are some good and lucky things in your life. I used to think I had no luck till I did this exercise, and in fact realised that although my life was pretty rough (at that time) it could have been a whole lot worse, so by comparison, I felt lucky. Hope x Link to comment
grymoire Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 As soon as you talked about cheeky he asked you what he meant by that... he is clearly hoping that if he did x, y, or z Kari may change her mind and give him a chance. It is well established that girls that friendzone guys do not have a change of heart. And who knows if Kari rejected him because of his injuries... Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 As soon as you talked about cheeky he asked you what he meant by that... he is clearly hoping that if he did x, y, or z Kari may change her mind and give him a chance. It is well established that girls that friendzone guys do not have a change of heart. And who knows if Kari rejected him because of his injuries... He just needs to move on. And start to think more positively about himself. Link to comment
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