cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Ok umm Ive been talking to this girl online for a week or 2 I asked her out yesterday and this is what she had 2 say. That is really sweet trust me your a really nice guy but i dont see us that way! im not looking for anyone right now im extremely busy! I hope you understand that i really just want to be friends! I dont want to hurt your feelings or anything! Im so sorry! Kari So what you guys think am I out of luck here or might I ever get a chance if where friends get to know eachother better. Link to comment
mca1975 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 No I dont think she is interested, at least she was honest, but stay friends if you wish. Link to comment
AnonymousMG Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Seems like that's just gonna be friends or nothing, up to you whether you think you can handle being 'friend-zoned' as they say. -AMG Link to comment
iggy320 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Yeah I also think she's not interested. You've got one of those "friend zone" lines. Maybe she's scared because it's all been based online. Does she live nearby? I think the best way to go about this is to remember that there's plenty of fish in the sea. Link to comment
grymoire Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Ok umm Ive been talking to this girl online for a week or 2 I asked her out yesterday and this is what she had 2 say. That is really sweet trust me your a really nice guy but i dont see us that way! im not looking for anyone right now im extremely busy! I hope you understand that i really just want to be friends! I dont want to hurt your feelings or anything! Im so sorry! Kari So what you guys think am I out of luck here or might I ever get a chance if where friends get to know eachother better. She is not interested and she rejected you without being hurtful. It was nice of her to take your feelings into consideration. Nothing to worry about... move on to the next girl... and do not make the mistake of being friends with this one. Link to comment
May_It_Be Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Ok umm Ive been talking to this girl online for a week or 2 I asked her out yesterday and this is what she had 2 say. That is really sweet trust me your a really nice guy but i dont see us that way! im not looking for anyone right now im extremely busy! I hope you understand that i really just want to be friends! I dont want to hurt your feelings or anything! Im so sorry! Kari So what you guys think am I out of luck here or might I ever get a chance if where friends get to know eachother better. I'm sorry, but she couldn't get more direct than that. You've never met this person, why are you so concerned? Find another girl online, or, uh, at a bar. Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 son of a * * * * * . really liked her to. yea she lives close by bout 20miles. well reason i still hope so much well shes like the only girl ive really talked to since my crash was in a bad car crash and really am messed but bad was hopeing me n her might start being friends. this is what i dont get asked to date her she said ok to that be gf no Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 son of a * * * * * . really liked her to. yea she lives close by bout 20miles. well reason i still hope so much well shes like the only girl ive really talked to since my crash was in a bad car crash and really am messed but bad was hopeing me n her might start being friends. this is what i dont get asked to date her she said ok to that be gf no she was letting you down easy. Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 i just cant do this anymore i mean my life is all * * * * ed up cant work cant drive cant take care of myself cant find anyone to care about me. i wanna die Link to comment
Mutley Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Dude, if you're going to date....this is going to happen. Brush yourself off, and get on with a new adventure. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 I think she sounded very polite about not being interested. I wouldn't take it personally. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 i just cant do this anymore i mean my life is all * * * * ed up cant work cant drive cant take care of myself cant find anyone to care about me. i wanna die Hey - it's only one chick man. Don't give up so easily. There are PLENTY of people to meet on line. You only knew her a week. Get back on the horse and try again! Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 nobodys ever interested im a damn 22 y/o virgin for cryin out load ive had like 2 damn gf 1 3rd grade one i went out w/ a lil she wanted to go to prom. i try n i try n all i ever get is crap Link to comment
olive Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 i would say out of luck.... i had a guy ask me out sort of like that.....and that's about the same reply i gave him.. i could be wrong though..don't necessarily just take my word for it Link to comment
grymoire Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 i just cant do this anymore i mean my life is all * * * * ed up cant work cant drive cant take care of myself cant find anyone to care about me. i wanna die whoa there what do you mean you can't drive, can't work, can't take care of yourself? and you wanna die? i doubt if this is just because of one girl's rejection.. looks like you have much deeper issues. Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 nobodys ever interested im a damn 22 y/o virgin for cryin out load ive had like 2 damn gf 1 3rd grade one i went out w/ a lil she wanted to go to prom. i try n i try n all i ever get is crap calm down dude... lots of guys are virgins at the age of 22..... Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 what exactly happened to you from the car crash dude?? is it permanent or temporary?? Fill us in so we can help you Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 what exactly happened to you from the car crash dude?? is it permanent or temporary?? Fill us in so we can help you Drew is right. We need more information. Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 none i know of have had the * * * * stain life i have. my left arm dont move well i cant do my job. my reaction is to slow to drive cant give myself a bath. y couldnt some1 have found me 30 mins later ida been dead by then Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 dude, try to pull it together. i always preach this movie to everyone but its really good and something you could use. in it there is a story about a man in even waaaaaay worse shape than you. Go buy and watch "The Secret" it could help you. Better to be alive and be someone than be dead and be nothing. Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 i was going to work lost it on the ice and flipped. was thrown out the window and now have a brain injury. broke my neck also. no its not perminate but no1 has any idea how much will come back Link to comment
ghost69 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 i was going to work lost it on the ice and flipped. was thrown out the window and now have a brain injury. broke my neck also. no its not perminate but no1 has any idea how much will come back focus on repairing your body and getting your mind straight before worrying about women. Link to comment
drewciouS281 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 just get the dvd i told you. Nothing is permanent. Focus on how much you want and WILL have a full recovery. it is all state of mind. mind over body! Link to comment
cjt1986 Posted September 2, 2008 Author Share Posted September 2, 2008 all that i want is to be loved by at lest a half way good looking girl. only thing thats been interested in me is a fat goth w/ 3 lip rings and a guy * * * Link to comment
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