l0velife Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 So last night me and my SO got in bed and started talking and kissing etc. We locked the door and we made love for a little bit and afterwards he went into the kitchen to get us some water. Well our bedroom door was open and my boyfriends roommate was in the living room playing video games. When my boyfriend when in the kitchen and got water his friend said "your * * * * * is in there waiting for you" and my boyfriend said what? So his friend repeated it and then I heard my boyfriend say "Um Yea" then my boyfriend paused for a minute and said thats a pretty rude thing to say in a non serious voice. Then his friend said "Oh did she hear me" then my boyfriend said "I don't know" He came in the room asking what was wrong and I said what the hell did he say about me...and he told me and I said what the f***. He said it was only a joke and he wasn't being serious at all. So I said well if my friend called you "my d***" how would you feel to be just a d*** to me. He said it wouldn't bother him if it was a joke. What I heard them say really pissed me off- it wasn't like they were joking and knew I could hear them- they had no idea I could hear them. ANYWAYS would this piss you off..being a male/female and being with your SO for more than two years and their best friend saying "your d***/p**** is waiting for you" It just seems like his friend thinks thats all I am to him...I know guys talk about things so it made me wonder if my boyfriend said something to his best friend to make him think it was okay to joke like that about me. Help it made me cry and feel like an object to him.. Link to comment
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