Worth the friendship??

[Shyguy24]

HI guys

 

My friend thinks that i was standing him up, when i told him that i was going to the office .

 

I am a lawyer and i am at the courts all day and then at the office from 6 to 9 pm.

 

I have time between 4 and 6 o clock , so we guys use to hang out and generally it would not be a problem, but work pressure is increasing and so i told my mate that we couldn't hang out like yesterday.

 

He thought that i was just standing him up as i think he is pretty egotistical and i tend to be pretty laid back.

 

Now he is not taking my calls ..which i think is ridiculous for a guy who is like 35 years old. His behavior is like a child..

 

WHAT do you guys think about this guys behavior, i think its very hard to be friends with him now but i am still trying to make up my mind.

[Daligal83]

It seems like he's being ridiculous. You can't be there to hang out at his beck and call. Things come up.

 

Did you have specific plans or do you just hang out at that time everyday?

[CallingAllAngels]

I find it incredibly childish. You're a Lawyer for crying out loud.

 

This guy is 35 years old? He's acting about 12...

 

He owes you an apology.

[AJ Auteur]

Goes to show you though how much he wanted to hang with you to be "hurt" by the non-meeting. Its pretty shocking though that a guy can't understand work as a reason for not hanging out especially as an adult. I wouldn't cut him yet. Just suspend him for now and let'em know when and if he calls work comes first cause homelessness is not an option.