flgirl777 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 I dont know whats wrong with me but lately I just feel like i have lost my sexual appetite. It seems to come & go in phases, but I feel like im letting my partner down because hes alwaysss horny and i feel like everytime we have sex im like " ok cum quick " I just havent been able to get into it. im very attracted to him & we've been together for almost a year now- any advice? how do i become more active?? we're a very experimental couple too i dont know why i just cant get into it Link to comment
Bkoguy07 Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 I dont know whats wrong with me but lately I just feel like i have lost my sexual appetite. It seems to come & go in phases, but I feel like im letting my partner down because hes alwaysss horny and i feel like everytime we have sex im like " ok cum quick " I just havent been able to get into it. im very attracted to him & we've been together for almost a year now- any advice? how do i become more active?? we're a very experimental couple too i dont know why i just cant get into it I notice that too, I'm the same way mine depends on how stressed i am what workouts i do and how much sports i play or anythin like that. Link to comment
lostandhurt Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Usually the more men have sex the less they want it, but the more women have good or great sex the more frequent they think about it and want it. (there have been studies) You may be different in that regard. Maybe you have sex so frequently that you desire it less. Stress, satisfaction, health and many other things can play a role in all this. Go see your doctor and tell them your concerns. I simple blood test can check your hormone levels which might shed some light on this also. Don't just wait for it to get better, take steps to figure it out. Good luck lost Link to comment
CallingAllAngels Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Are you on antidepressents or any other sort of medication? Link to comment
Samedy Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 I know when I'm depressed my sexual appetite plummets. Link to comment
redhearts Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Birth control known to prevent pregnancy by killing sex drive. Or you could just not be as sexually attracted to him as when you first met or you may have never been that sexually attracted to him. Link to comment
pacodemil Posted September 2, 2008 Share Posted September 2, 2008 Have you tried experimenting more with foreplay? Something to get you excited beforehand and really into the mood. Link to comment
flgirl777 Posted December 22, 2008 Author Share Posted December 22, 2008 im on yasmin.. birthcontrol, but no other medications Link to comment
flgirl777 Posted December 22, 2008 Author Share Posted December 22, 2008 yes i suppose i could try more foreplay. we have gotten rather lazy about it - i think its because id just rather not go through all the trouble, id rather get it over with quickly. but its just something ill have to work with. i will talk to my doctor about the pill, maybe he can recommend one that wont kill my sex drive Link to comment
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