TrueBlue27 Posted September 1, 2008 Share Posted September 1, 2008 My girlfriend and I got back together a little over a month ago after 4 years apart. Way back when we met and started dating - she was 17 and I was 22. I was her first love, and she loved me so much. She would never have left me. We were together for 2.5 years, but I had started getting bored and looking to get out and at the same time she confessed that she fooled around with another guy, and I was shocked. She felt terrible about it, but it was the last straw and I told her we should see other people. She was crushed. That was 4 years ago. I just couldn't get past her cheating, and it took a LONG time for me to be able to trust her again. We kept in contact, and hung out every few months for the past 4 years. I still loved her so much, I just needed to get that trust back. Now we are back together, and it seems totally backwards now. I am so in love with her, and it seems like she doesn't feel as powerful of love as she did before. We both miss what we had. She knows how much I care about her, and only wants to be with me. But can it ever be like it was before? Will she ever feel as strong of a love as she felt back then for me? Link to comment
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