blondy Posted September 1, 2008 Share Posted September 1, 2008 I was with the same guy all summer, so two months (which seems like nothing considering I was with someone almost 7 years prior). I am absolutely crushed over this, we just broke up a few days ago. And we broke up through a text message of all things, so I have no closure! There was no final discussion, no goodbye, nothing. We started off so strong, completely head over heels in love, when I was with him it just felt so right. I have been in love before but it never felt like this. We really connected like I never have with anyone else. We even discussed a future together, met eachother's families, etc. And then, the past few weeks, something changed with us. Its like all of a sudden he grew cold and the spark died out and it was the worst feeling. I knew when it was happening and I tried to ignore it and tell myself it was all in my head, until I actually brought it up and he agreed that he felt the change too. I feel like not only did I lose a man I loved but a good friend too. It hurts and I am just so sad. I feel like we were together for years, not just a few months. And having broke up through text messaging leaves absolutely no closure, nothing. The 'what-ifs' keep running through my mind, I keep thinking back to all the wonderful moments we shared together this summer, those intense, incredible moments you share with someone your in love with....and you think it will never end. This hurts worse than when I ended my 7 year relationship. I know in my heart it obviously was not meant to be, but the pain is there. This is different from past breakups. If I were looking at myself now six months ago, I would have laughed at myself for getting this attached to a man in only two months. I miss him terribly, its like an ache that wont go away. Link to comment
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