headupgirlie Posted August 31, 2008 Share Posted August 31, 2008 I recently ended things with my bf- from the start he was always emotionally unavailable to me. For the 1st month we were together, there were days that he acted so cold towards me, it was hurtful. I took a few weeks away from him but eventually went back, although things changed. He started to act a bit more emotionally available but I was resentful and felt that it was an act. I was scared and could not let my guard down. The icing on the cake was when we went away together and 2 nights in a row, after we had fabulous meals and drinks, we would get back to the room and I would turn away from him in bed and not even say goodnight! It was awful but I knew than that I had to end things with this man, that is 39 years old, and seems to want a friendship/comfort versus a true, loving and passionate partnership. It's been hard, I want to call him but my pride remains in tact. He did text me last week saying he was thinking about me and missed me but I remained strong. I've been feeling very weak/hurt this weekend but have managed to not text/call. You see, I wanted to fall for this man, I was falling for this man but his cold behavior really made me see an ugly side of him that I would not want to endure for the rest of my life. Just needing to vent right now, any kind words of encouragement would help. Thank u all in advance. Kat Link to comment
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