Cadence_oO Posted August 31, 2008 Share Posted August 31, 2008 So,the thing goes..me and my husband have separated over a month ago.I know it's not much but it feels like forever to me... We have legally arranged his visitation rights to our daughter(every other weekend and on the weekends she doesn't see him he sees her on Tuesday and wednesday's after nursery) and he no longer lives in a hotel,he bought a place for himself. Although I am still going through a rough time over it,I can safely say that I am healing and feeling much more positive and secure. So much actually that I have had two dates with a man I met at my friends dinner party. I did NOT intend to even think about dating so soon after my separation but this guys was just so nice and I settled on one date that went so great I let him talk me into another one. Now,these are still such early stages and everything is going very very slow especially because of my daughter who is still getting used to the fact that mommy and daddy won't be living together anymore. Now my soon to be ex husband has found out about this new man through a friend of ours. Can I just add that WE are divorcing because of his INFIDELITY! He is still in a relationship with the girl he was cheating on me with (although long-distance relationship).She stays in his house when she visits,sometimes on the same weekends as our daughter goes to see her dad.She is constantly around the girl who broke her parents up! And my ex-husband has the nerve to accuse ME that I am not thinking about Alexis's well-being and that I shouldn't be bringing men into her life just like that! First of all,I didn't introduse this new guys that I'm seeing with Alexis nor do I intend too for a very looooooong time. Now,for the first time since our separation I feel like I'm back on track to being happy and that everything is going to be ok. And he made me feel like a horrible mother! Does he have a point? Is it too soon for me to start bonding with someone else? Advice please,thank you! Link to comment
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