mberard3 Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 My husband just started a new job, and he has been taking off for lunches, with a girl that he works with. (He told me he was brought into the office and told not to associate with her because of her negativity towards the company) He says he takes lunch with her because she smokes and so does he, and they have to leave the grounds. I told him I am not comfortable with this, so he said he would not do it again. Today I went to his office to pick him up for lunch, and I saw him walking out of the office with her to go to her car, I am pretty sure he saw my car, and he turned around and went back into the building. (He does not answer his phone when he is at work, so I can not call him to say I am picking him up for lunch) When he came back out he was not at all surprised to see me, when I asked him why he went back in, he said he did not see me, and that he was just checking the weather so he could use his phone outside. I did not get upset with him, I took his answer at face value, and was happy to see him, but as the minutes went by, he became very angry with me, and jumped out of the car without saying anything else. I don't know that I believe him any longer, there is a history of problems that have really tried my trust in the past, many, many times. He has a mental disorder, he is bi polar, so if I have a concern, and I voice it to him, he freaks out, to the point of extreme violence. He tells me about their conversations, and it seems to me that they have become very close in a short period, or she just gives up far too much info to someone she only met one week ago. He always has an answer for everything, and today he became quite upset with me in regards to this situation. He asked me why I am concerned about her and not the guys in the office. I said she is the one he goes for lunches with. I don't think it is right for a married man to be going on lunch breaks in a young girl's car. Am I crazy? or is this wrong? Link to comment
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