Pivoine Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 My best friend and me, we went on a two-month trip and we ended up having sex three different times. We were not drunk, just sharing the same bed and although after the first time, we clearly decided it should not happen again, none of us stopped it in the two other occasions. I like this guy a lot and he knows it. He adores me too: he is really sweet, cares deeply about me and until now he has always been there for me. However he says he is not in love with me. And he blames himself for it. In fact we started dating just after we met for the first time, but after some weeks he told me that he was not sure of his feelings and we split. Since then, we are very close friends and we never had sex again. I want to continue being friends with him, but at the same time, the thought of him finding a girlfriend makes me extremely jelous. He says the same about me talking to other guys. I think his feelings for me will not change after all this, but I don’t know what to do. My friends like him a lot too. Some don't even believe that we are only friends, because we are always together. I tried to stop contact with him several times in the past, because I am afraid I cannot be a genuine friend if I love him. But he always insists, phones, comes to visit me and at the end everything continues as before. I value his friendship a lot and would not like to lose him, but the more I see him, the more I would like to become more than a friend. Any insights will be greatly appreciated. Link to comment
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