soccerissweet Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 Some quick background, my gf and I of 2 years broke up about 5 months ago. After some NC she began texting and I ignored her until eventually I answered one of her calls. She told me she regretted breaking up etc. We begun hanging out but nothing really changed. I asked her if she would give us a second chance and she said "not now". I went back into NC ending with this "please don't contact me unless you want to talk about us". Well I wake up today and see a text from her at 7 AM saying "that last kiss ill cherish till we meet again!" seriously what the * * * * ! is she trying to do to me. An hour later she phones me which I don't answer and doesn't leave a message. Is it me or am I just very jaded at this point. I honestly think this means nothing! Should I just keep ignoring her or text her back again saying please dont contact me unless you are serious about us. What do you guys think? What the hell was the point of that text.... Thankyou guys for reading my post any advice/insight/anything is appreciated Link to comment
DN Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 I think you made your position very clear and unless she does say she wants you back you should continue to ignore her. Link to comment
HeartGoesOn Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 I wouldn't worry about what the point of that text was. You expressed to her the only reason she could cantact you, Stick to it! Link to comment
soccerissweet Posted August 29, 2008 Author Share Posted August 29, 2008 So you guys would advocate just ignoring her then not restating my initial statement to her. Like I do really want this to work so ignoring her would be the best solution right now?? Link to comment
Mending 08 Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 Soccer as a woman, yes, ignore her. You made it clear where you stand. She needs to respect that. I have a wishy washy ex who asked for "space" a few days ago. I am giving him that, and THEN some. He emailed me yesterday and I have not yet responded because it is not worthy of one. This is fresh and raw right now, but if you can stick to what you say...she will likely come running back, but even more important YOU will be in control of your emotions, and your destiny.That's ALL that matters!!!!! Link to comment
soccerissweet Posted August 29, 2008 Author Share Posted August 29, 2008 I agree, even though I ignore her it somewhat sets me back tho. Now I am probably going to be checking my phone again to see if she texts back again...It's so much easier to have no expectations which I shouldnt but its hard not to Link to comment
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