tina-rocks Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 I'm basically afraid I may have a less advantage of surviving my pending operation. Heres why. Karl is leaving next year as you know and we are divorcing as he no longer loves me I am worried that whilst under if anything goes wrong. Well I won't have the strength to fight it. Honestly I am petrified right now. Knowing this and have been bottling it up for weeks but today is a bad day. Tina Link to comment
redhearts Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 Don't worry you'll be fine, my prayers go out to you. =] Link to comment
tina-rocks Posted August 28, 2008 Author Share Posted August 28, 2008 Hi Redhearts, Thank you. Link to comment
redhearts Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 Sorry if you posted before, but what is the operation on if you don't mind me asking? Link to comment
SapphireNoir10 Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 I hope you'll be ok hun Please stay strong Link to comment
tina-rocks Posted August 28, 2008 Author Share Posted August 28, 2008 Hi, I have to have a hysterectomy. Not quite as simple as I have a Fibroid pushing against a main vein. 1 in 50 person chance of not making it according to the surgeon. Sorry if you posted before, but what is the operation on if you don't mind me asking? Link to comment
tina-rocks Posted August 28, 2008 Author Share Posted August 28, 2008 Hi Blueafterglow. Thanks so much for the support. I really appreciate it. Tina xI hope you'll be ok hun Please stay strong Link to comment
jengh Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 If it makes you feel any better, my mother had this done (for the same reason...the fibroid thing as well as her ovaries were failing) ohhhh... 15 years ago, I think... and she survived and is fine now! I'm sure you will be too! keep us posted =) Link to comment
greensleeves Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 I read the rest of your threads and it sounds as though you're in a pretty lousy situation right now. I'm so sorry about everything Try not to worry about the operation...everything will be fine and the chance of any complications are slim to none, you will be under so it will be your physical body responding, not your emotions, so you're definitely going to be okay...let those fears go. Have the operation and give yourself time to recover fully. I know you're in a bad living situation right now, but keep in mind that it's only temporary. Once you're strong again, you can start to focus on your future...you can get your own little place somewhere and start to rebuild your life. You can totally reinvent yourself if that's what you want to do. And I think that you should be able to keep your cats and I encourage you to keep them if you can(I know that this is off topic from this thread, but I did want to mention it). You're going through some really hard knocks right now but you will be okay... Link to comment
redhearts Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 Good hospital, good doctor you shouldn't have a problem. If you were that worried I would of suggested doing a hospital search. I heard that you can look that up now, like theres this one city I forgot where in the East coast had the lowest percent of heart attack deaths because they had a record of doing it fast but very well or something. You should be fine though, 1 out of 50, you are not going to be that 1. Your going nto be that 1 out of the 49 who makes it! Link to comment
tina-rocks Posted August 28, 2008 Author Share Posted August 28, 2008 Thank you so much Greensleeves for understanding. I know this thread seemed a bit Odd!. I really appreciate you taking the time to catch up and your advice also has really helped. sorry I just feel awful today. Can't shift it. Tina Link to comment
greensleeves Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 sorry I just feel awful today. Can't shift it. You should never be sorry for how you feel. Of course you feel awful, you're going through a major surgery in a few days...it's scary But, you WILL be okay. Just get through everything one little step at a time. You'll get stronger every day. Link to comment
tina-rocks Posted August 29, 2008 Author Share Posted August 29, 2008 I feel so tired. Exhausted and I just want to scream. I want it all to go away now. Thanks so much again and sorry for ranting. You should never be sorry for how you feel. Of course you feel awful, you're going through a major surgery in a few days...it's scary But, you WILL be okay. Just get through everything one little step at a time. You'll get stronger every day. Link to comment
Jetta Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 Your post hit me hard and I don't have anything profound to say. I mean it is possible, your fear is warrented, all prayers that you remain strong during your operation. Wow that's a lot to have going on at once. Losing a part of yourself, and your marriage. How awful. I hope you have someone to talk to to help you through this. When is your operation? I want to look for posts from you following is why I ask. You have me worried. Love keeps people alive, if it wasn't for the love of my children, son especially, I wouldn't have made it through my ordeal. He used to call just at the right time. Link to comment
tina-rocks Posted August 29, 2008 Author Share Posted August 29, 2008 I am in 4th Sept. Next week? I'm scared now? Your post hit me hard and I don't have anything profound to say. I mean it is possible, your fear is warrented, all prayers that you remain strong during your operation. Wow that's a lot to have going on at once. Losing a part of yourself, and your marriage. How awful. I hope you have someone to talk to to help you through this. When is your operation? I want to look for posts from you following is why I ask. You have me worried. Love keeps people alive, if it wasn't for the love of my children, son especially, I wouldn't have made it through my ordeal. He used to call just at the right time. Link to comment
Angel_baby Posted August 29, 2008 Share Posted August 29, 2008 Tina, it is perfectly natural to feel afraid of an operation. I was afraid of just my back procedures! I am sure you have a very good doctor doing the operation and the type that you are getting is fairly common. You will be ok. *hugs* You will be in my thoughts. I also wish you a fast recovery Link to comment
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