septembermourning Posted August 28, 2008 Share Posted August 28, 2008 I had a nightmare roller coaster relationship with a guy for 1 year who was insensitive and cruel. Then the next year was spent with him trying to get back together when of course he was not interested in someone else and me never being able to do it because I would never have respected myself yet we continued to talk every day and sleep together quite a bit. He was super fickle. There were many people in that year that he was interested in but it never went anywhere. Over this two years he was always telling me how much he loved me. Of course his actions did not match. Well a few months ago I moved out of state to get away from him among other things. He was always sending me I love you and I miss you texts. For my birthday he sent me a very mushy website he had designed about how we first met. Apparently that Friday we both met someone… I knew something was different because he wasn’t returning my texts but a couple days later he resumed telling me how beautiful I was etc. sending me kisses blah blah. One night I confronted him and found out he was dating someone he was excited about… so he had been sending those texts after he met her. COMPLETELY INAPPROPRIATE and trying to keep me as his Plan B as usual! Now, I have been dealing with this for a long time but I guess I always thought that when I finally did find someone, meet someone it was really going to hurt him because he had NEVER had to deal w/me liking someone other than him in all that time! Well I text him that He had been replaced and that I had met someone too, etc… and what does he say? “I love you I just want you to be happy and I am happy you like someone” It made me SO ANGRY I felt sick. Is he affected by nothing??? A month went by and neither of us contacted one another. About 3 weeks in he forwarded me some stupid job which I ignored and then another week later he sends me a text in the early morning saying He is sorry he looked at my myspace page now but he’s happy for me and my new guy seems like “a nice guy” IT made me SO ANGRY AGAIN. Why does he feel the need to keep saying that? Is he TRYING to piss me off? We are not even speaking. He is the most self absorbed person I have ever met so I know he can’t actually care about another person or want them to be happy. But what really hurts is that he keeps playing martyr like he wants the best for me when all he did was ruin my life for the past two years!!! Is he really happy for me?? Link to comment
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